In the YouTube video "Who the [ __ ] did I marry?", the creator shares her personal story of meeting, dating, marrying, and divorcing a pathological liar. She introduces a new series where she will reveal the entire timeline from their meeting to the divorce decree, withholding real names and being truthful but respectful. She warns viewers of graphic content and emphasizes that she no longer has contact with her ex-husband. She met him on Facebook and Hinge in March 2020 and was impressed by his chivalry on their first date at the Cheesecake Factory . They discussed serious intentions and even planned to purchase a house together. However, they had misunderstandings about the house purchase, leading the speaker to question his honesty. She later discovered she was pregnant but experienced a miscarriage and was disappointed when her boyfriend missed her hospital appointment for the DNC procedure. The speaker's suspicion and questioning caused arguments between them, leading to their separation.
00:00:00 In this section, YouTuber introduces her new series titled "Who the [ __ ] did I marry?" where she will share her personal story of meeting, dating, marrying, and divorcing a pathological liar. She explains that she will be truthful, but will not use real names or be disrespectful. She advises that there may be graphic content and that she will do her best to upload videos in order asthey happened, covering the entire timeline from their meeting to the divorce decree. She emphasizes that she has no contact with her ex-husband and cannot stress enough that they do not communicate through mutual friends or any other means. She explains that he was a pathological liar and a narcissist with no reason for lying and that the lies had no limit. She also mentions that she was once a Psychology major and comfortably diagnoses him as a pathological liar and mentions some mental health issues. She warns viewers that they may not believe some of the things she will share and reassures them that everything did indeed happen.
00:05:00 In this section, the speaker shares the backstory of how she met her ex-husband in March 2020 on a Facebook dating site and Hinge. With two different profiles under different names, they matched without realizing it. During their first phone call, he mentioned that his parents were both deceased, he grew up in Philadelphia, and had lived briefly in Augusta. He shared that he used to play arena football and work at Apple during the off-season. He expressed his desire to move to Atlanta and buy a house in the near future. The speaker was surprised by his talkative nature during the call, and they eventually set up their first date. The speaker went on to mention that his numerous red flags were overlooked at the time and referred to the situation as the "United Nations of red flags."
00:10:00 In this section of the YouTube video titled "WHO TF DID I MARRY?! (FULL SERIES!!!)", the speaker recounts the story of their first date with a man they met online. They chose to meet at the Cheesecake Factory in the Perimeter Mall area, after discovering they lived approximately 45 minutes apart. However, on her way to the date, the speaker's tire blew out on the highway. She called her date, who arrived at the gas station and changed her tire. Impressed by his appearance and chivalry, the speaker was relieved he looked like his online photos. The conversation during their first date went well, and the man revealed his desire to get married for real as he was 42 and had gone through a divorced with children.
00:15:00 In this section of the YouTube video "WHO TF DID I MARRY?! (FULL SERIES拒}, the speaker shares their first few dates and conversations with a man they met after a long period of being single. They had both made it clear they were looking for a serious relationship and marriage. The dinner at Cheesecake Factory went well, and they connected over their sense of humor and shared experiences. The man played a song by John Legend, which he interpreted as a sign. They talked deeply, and he opened up about his past, including his time spent playing football in California, working at Apple, and a past marriage. Despite feeling uncomfortable with the detailed discussions about past relationships, the speaker continued to engage in meaningful conversations with the man. Within two and a half weeks, they went out again to Red Lobster, but the question of where they would quarantine during the lockdown each insisted on their own places, marking the end of part one of their story.
00:20:00 In this section of the YouTube video titled "WHO TF DID I MARRY?! (FULL SERIES😳)", the speaker recounts a mistake she made early in her relationship when she invited her partner to quarantine at her three-bedroom townhouse during the lockdown. Initially, she hesitated due to her upbringing in the church, which instilled the belief that living with a man without being married was wrong. However, the financial security provided by her partner, who paid all the household bills, was intoxicating, and she put aside her reservations. The couple discusses purchasing a house together, as they try to make their relationship official and start a family.
00:25:00 In this section of the YouTube video titled "WHO TF DID I MARRY?! (FULL SERIESToString(ucture.Emoji.SHOCKED)), the speaker recounts how her partner showed her a letter from Chase Bank indicating that he had been approved for a mortgage of $750,000. This revelation came as a surprise, as the couple had previously discussed moving out of Riverdale, Georgia, and raising a family elsewhere. Her partner explained that he had invested his money wisely and had savings accounts with different banks, including Chase and US Bank, as well as an offshore account. Despite her own financial constraints, the speaker went ahead and contacted a realtor to find a house within their desired price range in Cobb County, Georgia, ultimately settling on a house in Douglasville for around $400,000. Her partner put in an offer, which was accepted, despite the couple not being able to physically tour the house prior to purchase.
00:30:00 In this section of the YouTube video titled "WHO TF DID I MARRY?! (FULL SERIES🤯)", the speaker recounts confusion over the purchase of a house in Douglasville. She explains that her boyfriend had told her he was putting an offer on the house and had even paid earnest money, but she later discovered he had not actually made the offer through the realtor. The realtor contacted the speaker directly and revealed that the house was still available. The boyfriend's behavior when confronted was defensive, and he eventually admitted to making the offer through a friend. The speaker was left feeling deceived and uncertain about the status of the house purchase.
00:35:00 In this section of the YouTube video titled "WHO TF DID I MARRY?! (FULL SERIES🚀britEN Muhammad recalls the detailed planning they did for purchasing appliances and furniture in preparation for moving into their new house. He explains how his partner methodically made a printout of what the sellers would be taking and they went to Home Depot and Lowe's, where they paid deposits for new appliances to be held until they were ready for delivery. The couple went on to shop for furniture at Rooms To Go, Ashley Furniture, and American Signature. However, the inspection of the house was delayed due to circumstances beyond their control, leading Muhammad to start recording audio diaries where she questioned her partner's honesty when he claimed to have put the house under contract. She was later shocked to find out in May 2020 that she was pregnant, diverting her attention away from the house-related concerns.
00:40:00 In this section of the YouTube video "WHO TF DID I MARRY?! (FULL SERIES😳)", the speaker shares her experiences of discovering her pregnancy and the internal struggles that came with it. She felt apprehensive due to her plus-size body and advanced age, which made her believe the pregnancy might be high-risk. The speaker was not married and had not shared the news with her family yet. When she went to the doctor for a check-up, she faced complications due to her boyfriend being unable to accompany her in the room. Believing they were purchasing a house to start a family, the speaker felt pressured to find a new home and soon discovered they were set to close the deal at the end of May. However, she did not begin packing, as she was pregnant and exhaustion often left her unable to keep her eyes open. Despite her concerns, she couldn't shake the feeling that something wasn't right, but she questioned who would lie about buying a house.
00:45:00 In this section of the YouTube video, titled "WHO TF DID I MARRY?! (FULL SERIES)", the speaker expresses her confusion and anxiety over the status of a house she and her boyfriend were supposed to purchase. Despite her boyfriend's assurances that they were close to closing, she discovers that the house had already sold. She becomes increasingly suspicious of her boyfriend's actions and lack of involvement in the process. After calling the real estate agent for the seller, she learns that the older white couple had purchased the house instead. The speaker expresses her frustration and feels misled by her boyfriend, raising further questions about the authenticity of their relationship.
00:50:00 In this section of the YouTube video titled "WHO TF DID I MARRY?! (FULL SERIES?!)", the speaker recounts a situation where she realized her partner had been lying about owning a house, and she had decided to stay with him despite her suspicions. The speaker made a decision to let him get out of the lie and intentionally proposed the idea of canceling the house deal due to the interest rate. Her partner then proceeded to back out of the deal, and the speaker moved on to find another house. However, a few weeks later, she experienced cramping and bleeding, and an ultrasound revealed that the pregnancy was not viable, leaving her hysterical. The next parts of the video are yet to be discussed.
00:55:00 In this section of the "Who TF Did I Marry?! (FULL SERIES)" video, the speaker shares her experience after receiving news that her pregnancy was not viable. Following the doctor's appointment, she had three options to choose from: letting nature take its course, taking a pill to induce expulsion at home, or having a DNC (dilation and curettage) procedure in the hospital. Traumatized by the pregnancy loss and the decision-making process, she elected to take the pill, causing her immense pain and discomfort. After taking the pill, she spent a night in prolonged labor and agony, finally visiting the doctor three days later for an ultrasound that confirmed the pregnancy had not passed. However, the speaker's boyfriend was meant to accompany her to the hospital for her DNC a few days later. To her surprise, he was offered a promotion and had to attend a significant business meeting on the day of her surgery. Ultimately, her friend offered to take her to the hospital instead. The speaker refused, citing her unfamiliarity with the person and the sensitivity of the situation. At this point, she and her boyfriend got into an argument, leaving her with a feeling of isolation and confusion.
In this YouTube video titled "WHO TF DID I MARRY?! (FULL SERIES!)", the speaker shares a series of confusing experiences in her relationship, starting with a hospital visit following a medical procedure. Despite her fiance's promise to pick her up, he was unable to attend due to a business meeting, leaving her feeling uncertain about their reliability. The speaker also recounts their failed attempt to purchase a house due to the builder's unwillingness to finish the basement and their unsuccessful car buying experience due to a hold-up with transferring funds.
The most surprising moment, however, came when her fiance bought her an Audi Q8 instead of the BMW she had initially wanted. The speaker had grown suspicious of her partner's behavior, as he had previously bragged about his wealth and played down the importance of their relationship. She also shares an incident where her spouse arranged for a large sum of money to be transferred for a car purchase, only for the car to never arrive.
Reflecting on her ex-husband's past, the speaker shares a story about his cautiousness regarding germs after two unexplained deaths in their relationship. His ex-wife's backstory is also shared, revealing a messy divorce and an amicable arrangement for the children to stay with him. The speaker expresses disbelief over her own oblivion to the potential warning signs in her relationships.
01:00:00 In this section of the video, the speaker recounts a confusing experience during her recovery from a medical procedure. Despite her fiance's promise to pick her up, he was unable to attend due to a business meeting. She relied on a friend to take her instead. When she woke up from the surgery, she was informed that her fiance had sent his executive assistant to check on her, assuming she was still at the hospital. However, hospital privacy regulations prevented the nurse from discussing her condition with the assistant, leading to a series of calls between her fiance and the medical staff to update him on her progress. Despite his promises, the fiance took over an hour to arrive, leaving the speaker feeling uncertain about the reliability of their relationship.
01:05:00 In this section, the speaker recounts the aftermath of their hospital visit following a failed real estate transaction. Their partner was unable to visit them due to hospital protocols, but had texted their family members asking them not to disturb them for a week. The speaker did not know about this at the time but became suspicious when their partner showed less interest in contacting them during their recovery period. A week later, they started looking for a new house, and although the partner lied about having a friend help him with the previous search, they found a trustworthy real estate agent named Scott. They toured several houses and eventually found one in Smyrna that they loved, which was listed for $699,000. Their partner expressed interest in the purchase and even offered an all-cash offer, leading the speaker to suspect their partner had more financial resources than they had previously known.
01:10:00 In this section of the YouTube video titled "WHO TF DID I MARRY?! (FULL SERIES?!)", the speaker recalls the purchasing process of a house they bought with their partner. The offer was made with a cash payment of $699,000 and a request for the basement to be finished and the quick closing of the deal. The partners exchanged signed electronic documents, with the speaker sending them back via email to the real estate agent. The speaker also clarifies their partner's background, stating they were born in Philadelphia but moved to Augusta, Georgia for high school, went to college in San Diego, and had family in both Georgia and Philadelphia. The speaker also clarifies that they had met several family members, including a brother and aunt in Augusta, and had spoken with a brother in Baltimore via FaceTime. The proposal itself is mentioned but not elaborated on as the speaker had previously found it embarrassing.
01:15:00 In this section of the YouTube video titled "WHO TF DID I MARRY?! (FULL SERIES🤯)", the speaker recounts the story of how she got engaged and ended up wearing a ring from her husband-to-be. Contrary to some viewers' assumptions, there was no traditional proposal with the phrase "will you marry me". Instead, they were living together and having a baby, so they needed to get married. The speaker's fiancé's father was a retired police officer and pastor, who used Bible quotes to pressure him into marriage. They ended up engaged, and the speaker wore the ring. It's important to note that her fiancé was previously married and divorced in California, and he kept in touch with his ex-wife and step-children there. He talked to them frequently on the phone, and the speaker could often hear them in the background. The discussion also touches upon the speaker's fiancé's frequent phone calls from work and how he multitasked on the phone.
01:20:00 In this section of the YouTube video "WHO TF DID I MARRY?! (FULL SERIESdorf;)," the couple shares their unsuccessful attempt to purchase a house due to the builder's unwillingness to finish the basement. Although they were disappointed, they continued their home search and found another house they both liked. The man planned to take on a larger mortgage than what was approved by their bank, but the woman was uneasy about purchasing a home priced above $900,000. The man also clarified that although he wore casual attire for work, he remained a fashionable person outside of work, enjoying shoes, watches, and hats. Despite these setbacks, they continued touring houses in the fall of 2020.
01:25:00 In this section of the YouTube video titled "WHO TF DID I MARRY?! (FULL SERIES😊)", the speaker shares their experience with the second house they attempted to purchase, which fell through after discovering the septic tank needed expensive repairs. Despite being indifferent about the house, they were able to withdraw their offer within the given time frame. The speaker then shifts the conversation to discussing their ex-husband's car purchasing process during their courtship. They reveal that he was initially test driving various luxury car models, with their assistance, and ultimately decided on a BMW sedan. Although the speaker was present when he discussed the payment with the salesperson, an error occurred when the company mistakenly authorized a budget higher than intended, allowing them to purchase the BMW at a price just under 90,000 dollars.
01:30:00 In this section of the YouTube video titled "WHO TF DID I MARRY?! (FULL SERIES)", the speaker recounts their experience buying a car with their ex-husband. During the transaction, the man they were dealing with at the BMW dealership was unable to physically process the wire transfer for the car purchase, as the person in charge of that task had gone home for the day. The speaker and her future husband left the dealership, with plans to wire the money first thing in the morning and return to pick up the car. Despite the man's insistence on buying a BMW for her, the speaker expresses her desire for a dark blue BMW X5 or an M Series, and they had even begun searching for that specific model online. The speaker describes the man's attachment to BMWs, as he hadowned one in California and had shown her pictures of it before it was totaled. The man hoped to purchase a BMW for her during their courtship, but ultimately ended up getting her a Ford Taurus instead.
01:35:00 In this section of the YouTube video titled "WHO TF DID I MARRY?! (FULL SERIES帐kow)", the speaker recounts her partner's unexpected decision to buy her an Audi Q8 instead of the BMW she initially wanted. The partner had taken her to an Alfa Romeo dealership and let her test drive both the BMW and the Audi. The speaker loved the Audi Q8 but was tired of test driving cars and wanted to make a decision. The partner had previously met her family virtually and in person, leading them to believe he had the means to buy her a car. However, when the partner took her to the Alfa Romeo dealership to make a purchase, he mentioned that the money was in an offshore savings account and there would be a holding fee to secure the car while he arranged for the transfer of funds. The speaker expresses frustration over the partner's behavior, as he had previously bragged about his wealth and played down the importance of their relationship. She also notes that the lockdown in 2020 made it easier for the partner to get away with his actions due to limited business operations.
01:40:00 In this section of the video, the speaker recounts an incident where her spouse arranged to have a large sum of money transferred for the purchase of a car for his fiancée. The speaker was asked to provide the bank account information over the phone or email it to the bank. Although she was unsure of who was on the other end of the call, she went along with her spouse's instructions and emailed the information. The car was supposed to be delivered to their house, but it didn't arrive as expected. The spouse assured her that there was a delay and that the car was stuck in Spartanburg. However, the car was never delivered, and they got into an argument when the speaker suggested handling the matter herself. The speaker admits that she was naive and didn't fully comprehend the extent of her spouse's dishonesty at the time.
01:45:00 In this section of the YouTube video "WHO TF DID I MARRY?! (FULL SERIES😱)", the speaker shares her belief that her ex-husband enjoyed manipulating her excitement over getting a car or a house, only to take it away. She reveals that her ex-husband's parents are both deceased, and he has several siblings, including two brothers and two sisters. The speaker shares that her ex-husband would frequently talk on the phone with one of his brothers, John, for extended periods of time, often discussing football and cars. The speaker emphasizes that she could physically hear her ex-husband's conversations with John, although she could not hear the other person on the phone.
01:50:00 In this section of the YouTube video titled "WHO TF DID I MARRY?! (FULL SERIESchi)," the speaker recounts a series of conversations with her partner about his family and their reactions to the passing of his grandmother and uncle. She explains that her partner had a distressing reaction to his grandmother's death and mentioned his sister, Shante, who lived in Douglasville. The speaker reveals that her partner had invited her to meet his sister several times but the plans always fell through. The partner claimed that his sister had to cancel due to various reasons. However, on the way to Douglasville for a rescheduled barbecue, her partner received a phone call and cancelled their plans again. The speaker admits that she didn't suspect anything at the time but looking back, she realizes that these events should have raised red flags. Additionally, her partner mentioned the passing of his uncle from COVID-19 a few weeks after his grandmother's death. These incidents seem suspicious, but the speaker expresses her disbelief at her own oblivion to these potential warning signs.
01:55:00 In this section of the YouTube series "Who TF Did I Marry?! (FULL SERIES!'), the speaker discusses a red flag incident related to his ex-husband's past marriage. He reveals that his ex-husband became overly cautious about germs after two unexplained deaths in their relationship. The backstory of the ex-wife is then shared. The speaker was told that the ex-husband and his ex-wife were once friends and started dating, leading to marriage. However, one day, the husband returned home early and caught his wife cheating, resulting in a messy divorce. The kids, who were not biologically his, stayed with him, and the divorce became amicable after some time. The ex-husband eventually moved to Georgia for a job offer, maintaining a close relationship with the children. This story was shared with the speaker in 2020, before he met his ex-husband.
In the YouTube video "WHO TF DID I MARRY?! (FULL SERIES)", the speaker shares her experiences of unexpected challenges and discoveries in her marriage. She recounts the competitive house-hunting process with her husband's ex-wife for a $700,000 property in Marietta, Georgia. The speaker expresses frustration when the seller required proof of funds from the husband before considering their offer, halting their house search. The couple eventually married in January 2020 without telling anyone beforehand. However, tensions rose when the husband began behaving suspiciously, making accusatory comments, and looking for a new house without her involvement. Unexpected encounters, such as an uninvited visit from her ex-boyfriend, added to the speaker's growing suspicions about her husband's behavior and intentions.
02:00:00 In this section, the speaker shares the backstory of her husband's ex-wife, who moved to Georgia after they both relocated there for work. The couple's marriage took place in California, and they divorced in the same state before she eventually moved. The speaker highlight's her husband's infrequent communication with his ex-wife, mentioning that she had never indicated a desire to win him back. Later in the video, the speaker reflects on the events of their relationship, confessing that she ended up marrying her husband primarily out of fear, a realization she would expand on later in the series. They got engaged after she lost a pregnancy in June 2020 and bought a car, a Nissan Ultima, in August with the husband's financial help. The speaker's regrets her decision to sign up for the car note and place herself in a financially dependent position.
02:05:00 In this section of the YouTube video "WHO TF DID I MARRY?! (FULL SERIESŁ)", the speaker shares an experience from October, where they and their ex-husband made competing offers on a $700,000 house in Marietta, Georgia. Despite putting in an all-cash offer at the full asking price, the seller requested proof of funds from the speaker’s ex-husband first. The speaker's real estate agent, Scott, had not ensured they had proof of funds on file before showing them houses, leaving them in a standoff. After being told they could not view other houses until they provided proof of funds, the speaker's ex-husband eventually refused and the deal fell through. The speaker found this situation unprofessional and frustrating, as they believed it was the real estate agent's responsibility to collect the necessary documents before initiating the house-hunting process.
02:10:00 In this section of the YouTube video titled "WHO TF DID I MARRY?! (FULL SERIES😯)", the speaker discusses the failed purchase of a house due to her partner's inability to provide proof of funds. Despite the agent's insistence on the importance of this verification, the partner refused, leading to the rejection of their offer. The speaker and her agent had already considered an alternative offer, which they eventually accepted because the other party had provided proof of funds. Unfortunately, the relationship between the speaker and her partner continued to deteriorate, with the speaker admitting that she knew something was wrong but was unsure of the extent of the deception. She ultimately decided to put their house hunt on hold and focus on getting through the holiday season before revisiting their situation in January.
02:15:00 In this section of the YouTube video titled "WHO TF DID I MARRY?! (FULL SERIES👉)", the speaker expresses her confusion and doubt about her husband's financial situation. despite seeing evidence of his substantial income, she questions whether he is honest with her and expresses her own insecurities and mistrust. She recounts their conversation about marriage and finances, during which he showed her his checking and Chase savings accounts, but refused to show her other accounts. The speaker felt relieved to see the money in those accounts but still felt uneasy and unsure about what else he might be hiding.
02:20:00 In this section of the YouTube video titled "WHO TF DID I MARRY?! (FULL SERIES😱)", the speaker shares a conversation she had with her partner around December 2020 regarding marriage. Both of them had grown up in religious households and felt pressured by their families to either marry or separate due to their living arrangement and impending parenthood. The speaker, skeptical of her partner's past, agreed to marry but faced paranoia and questioned his trustworthiness. She conducted a background check using his social security number and found no results. Assured by the lack of criminal history and her partner's law-abiding nature, the couple proceeded with filing a marriage license and setting a wedding date.
02:25:00 In this section of the YouTube video titled "WHO TF DID I MARRY?! (FULL SERIES incredulously), the speaker reveals that she got married in January 2020 without telling anyone beforehand due to past failed attempts and fear of disappointment. She describes her friends' reactions, some expressing regret for missing out on celebrations like a bridal shower and bachelorette party. The speaker mentions that she took her marriage seriously, but by the end of the month, she knew she was in trouble and the relationship was not what she expected. Future videos will discuss how things went wrong before the relationship ended. The speaker also mentions that it's her birthday in the following day.
02:30:00 In this section of the YouTube video titled "WHO TF DID I MARRY?! (FULL SERIES😱)", the speaker recounts why she chose to share her personal story of a traumatic marriage on social media. She explains that it was a cathartic experience for her, despite the potential backlash. The speaker emphasizes the importance of investigating red flags and encourages women to trust their instincts. She acknowledges that her marriage was challenging, revealing that she felt like she couldn't remember who she was before meeting her spouse. She acknowledges making mistakes but ultimately believes that God's grace is sufficient. The speaker expresses regret for overlooking warning signs but also acknowledges that she felt pressured to get married and start a family.
02:35:00 In this section of the YouTube video titled "WHO TF DID I MARRY?! (FULL SERIES)", the speaker reflects on her past marriage to a man named Legion. She expresses her disappointment and disbelief that things did not turn out as she had hoped. Despite initial signs of a routine and comfortable relationship, the speaker reveals that her ex-husband would regularly have lengthy phone conversations with his brothers, which caused her concern. The speaker had worked at Georgia State Patrol for several years before meeting Legion, who was fine with her career in law enforcement due to his father's background in the police force. The speaker reveals that she did not excuse his behavior at the time but now warns others not to do so, as she felt trapped in the relationship and wished to share her story to help others.
02:40:00 In this section of the YouTube video titled "WHO TF DID I MARRY?! (FULL SERIES😳)", the speaker recounts how her husband's behavior towards her changed after they got married. In the beginning, he had met some of her co-workers and friends, and there were no issues. However, within two weeks of their marriage, his demeanor shifted, and he started making accusatory comments about who she was with and why she was wearing certain things to work. Despite finding these comments absurd, they became more frequent, and he began calling her from work every day. When she tried to explain that his assumptions were unfounded, he seemed to question her loyalty. Around two weeks after their marriage, he began looking for a house without her involvement, which further upset her and left her feeling disregarded in the decision-making process.
02:45:00 In this section of the YouTube video "WHO TF DID I MARRY?! (FULL SERIES)", the speaker describes her husband's behaviour in January 2021 as he continued to look for a new house with a friend named Scott. Though the speaker did not join him in viewing the houses, she noticed a change in her husband's return time from work. He began coming home later, claiming to be looking at houses after work hours. By the end of the month, the speaker felt troubled and uncertain about their marriage, despite her husband's insistence that they were only looking for a new house. The speaker's lease was set to expire in August, and she made it clear to her husband that she would be moving to Cobb County regardless, either with him or without him. The speaker's attitude was firm, and she was no longer satisfied with their current living situation due to her husband's narrative of conflict with her female friend.
02:50:00 In this section of the YouTube video titled "WHO TF DID I MARRY?! (FULL SERIES!!)", the speaker recounts an unexpected encounter with an ex-boyfriend at her home in February 2021, just weeks after getting married. Her husband had been trying to convince her that her female neighbor had romantic interest in him and was making provocative comments. After a peaceful honeymoon period, the husband began looking at houses in February and went all out for the speaker's birthday and Valentine's Day. One weekend after her birthday, the husband gave her money to go to the nail salon, but while she was there, she received a text message stating that someone had been at their house looking for her. Panicked, she finished her pedicure and headed home to find her husband calmly describing the encounter with a man who had arrived in a black Dodge Charger and identified himself as looking for the speaker. The husband eventually revealed that he believed the man was the speaker's former long-term ex-boyfriend, whom they had both disclosed to each other during their courting phase. The speaker expresses shock and confusion about the encounter, wondering why the ex would come to her home unannounced.
02:55:00 In this section of the YouTube video titled "WHO TF DID I MARRY?! (FULL SERIES shocking)", the speaker recounts an unexpected visitors encounter at her house. Although her partner Legion had previously taken care of the situation, the speaker's behavior puzzled Legion, as she reacted strongly to the visitor's uninvited appearance.
The visitor drove a black Dodge Charger, and upon being asked for the man's description, Legion could only provide that he was shorter than the speaker's ex-husband and brown-skinned. Initially assuming it might be the maintenance guy, who was the only one left on her list, she inquired if the man was muscular or skinny, but Legion became agitated and could only tell her he was "in between," leaving her with two remaining possibilities. Confused, she continued to questions Legion for more details.
In the YouTube video "WHO TF DID I MARRY?! (FULL SERIES)", the speaker recounts several suspicious incidents in her marriage, including her partner's claim that a stranger had come to their house looking for her, which turned out to be a lie. Another incident involved her partner revealing a company car he kept at the office instead of bringing it home, leading to disappointment and frustration. The speaker also discovered her partner had been messaging other women on Facebook and felt betrayed when confronted about it. They attended marriage counseling, but the infidelity and financial disagreements led the speaker to question the authenticity of her husband's identity when she noticed inconsistencies between his social security number and marriage license number. She discovered he had provided false information and confronted him, with the conversation continuing in part 26 of the series.
03:00:00 In this section of the YouTube video titled "WHO TF DID I MARRY?! (FULL SERIES)", the speaker recalls an incident where her partner, named Legion, claimed that a stranger had come to their house looking for her, but she became suspicious when she received a notification from her security system showing that the front door had been opened and closed within the same minute. The speaker, who did not have a Ring door camera but her neighbor did, contacted her neighbor to check her security footage, but she did not see anyone in the footage. The speaker then realized that her partner had made up the story about the stranger because no one had actually come to their house that day.
03:05:00 In this section of the "Who TF Did I Marry?! (FULL SERIES)" video, the speaker recalls receiving messages from her partner claiming someone had come to their house looking for her. She was unsure if it was true or not, leading to inner conflict. Later, they visited a burial site where her partner revealed his grandparents were buried. The headstone only had the family name and no individual names or dates, which reminded her of a shared family plot. Afterward, they passed by a building with the letters NCR on it, and her partner mentioned his company had bought it for offices, revealing he kept the company car there instead of bringing it home.
03:10:00 In this section of the YouTube video titled "WHO TF DID I MARRY?! (FULL SERIESmaking a surprising claim about his marriage), the speaker recounts an incident where he asked his partner to take him to his office at the NCR building. They were unable to enter the building as it was locked and no one was available to open the door. While they were waiting, the partner called his work contacts to arrange access, all the while the speaker was seated in the passenger seat, scrolling through Facebook. Despite this incident, the speaker claimed that his partner kept a company car, a charcoal gray BMW 5 series, at the NCR building. The speaker expressed disappointment when his partner later showed him a picture of the car, as he had previously been promised a different model.
03:15:00 In this section of the YouTube video titled "WHO TF DID I MARRY?! (FULL SERIES😳)", the speaker recounts how her husband would occasionally offer to let her drive his BMW car, which she had desires to test drive herself. He would do this by making excuses to go home in the BMW instead of his personal car. The speaker realized in retrospect that he was attempting to fuel her excitement for the car. After she expressed frustration over driving a Nissan while he had a BMW, he stopped offering her the BMW. At this point, the speaker mentions discovering a trip itinerary for a two-person journey from Atlanta to London during the summer, a surprise gift for her birthday which she had earlier expressed her desire to visit. The speaker expresses her excitement for this revelation, unaware of the specifics of the accommodation arranged, referred to as the "seavoy", which she later discovers is a high-end hotel.
03:20:00 In this section of the YouTube video titled "WHO TF DID I MARRY?! (FULL SERIES😳)", the speaker describes how her partner, Legion, had surprised her with plans to take her to London for a trip in July. Excited about the prospect of traveling, the speaker took the initiative to print out passport applications for both of them. However, they didn't manage to fill them out before the speaker's mother was scheduled to visit in April.
During this time, Legion received a text message from a woman while he was in the shower. Intrigued, the speaker looked at his phone and discovered that the text was from his aunt, who shared the same name as one of the women in his Facebook Messenger contacts. Upon further investigation, the speaker found that there were messages from seven women in Legion's Facebook Messenger, leading her to question the nature of their relationships.
03:25:00 In this section of the YouTube video titled "WHO TF DID I MARRY?! (FULL SERIESSTRUCKoker)", the speaker discusses discovering her husband's inappropriate messages to other women on Facebook Messenger. Although some conversations had been read earlier, the speaker was surprised by a message that stated, "when are you going to come get this." The conversation suggested that her husband had not physically cheated on her but had been flirting with the woman. However, when she confronted him, he denied any wrongdoing and played it off as harmless flirting. The speaker expressed her anger, feeling that she had been faithful to the marriage, while her husband had been unfaithful in the digital realm. Despite his agreement to go to marriage counseling, the speaker could not reconcile her feelings and struggled with second-guessing herself when her mother arrived for a visit.
03:30:00 In this section of the "WHO TF DID I MARRY?! (FULL SERIESprintStackTrace inequity in their marriage, the speaker revealed that her husband had been messaging other women on Facebook for months, despite their recent wedding. Feeling second-guessing and unsure of what was going wrong, she reached out to her aunt for advice. Her aunt, recognizing the challenges of marriage, urged her to return home and work through the issues with her husband. The couple attended marriage counseling, but the pastor expressed concern about the infidelity and lack of intimacy so early in their marriage. Despite Legion's attempts to downplay the significance of his behavior and request for a joint bank account, the speaker struggled to move past the betrayal.
03:35:00 In this section of the YouTube video titled "WHO TF DID I MARRY?! (FULL SERIES😡)", the speaker discusses a financial disagreement with her husband, referred to as Legion. The couple examined each other's checking account balances, which showed a significant difference. Legion was hesitant to show the speaker his savings accounts, despite mentioning the need to buy a house. This reluctance led to marriage counseling sessions, where the pastor and his wife raised concerns about Legion's unwillingness to share his savings information with his wife. Legion justified his secrecy by explaining that he had earned the money through hard work and no one should tell him how to handle it. The pastor's wife expressed doubts about the relationship's longevity based on this behavior.
03:40:00 In this section of the YouTube video titled "WHO TF DID I MARRY?! (FULL SERIES😱)", the speaker shares an experience they had with their spouse during their house hunting process. The pastor and his wife had advised against their marriage and predicted it would not last a year. Despite this, the speaker's spouse continued to look for a house, even though they had not shown the speaker their savings account. A realtor named Amber was involved in the process, and she suggested taking things one step at a time and getting pre-approval before making an offer. However, the speaker's spouse refused to provide proof of funds unless the offer was accepted, and the video does not reveal whether or not the offer was eventually accepted. Amber's insistence on following proper procedures left a positive impression on the speaker.
03:45:00 In this section of the video, the speaker recounts a conversation with their realtor, Amber, in which the speaker's partner did not submit necessary paperwork to support his offer on a house. The speaker remembers Amber expressing concern and encouraging them to do their research, suspecting something was amiss. After this conversation, the couple put a pause on house hunting and eventually decided to rent instead. The speaker expresses feelings of embarrassment and complicity in the situation, as they felt they had wasted Amber's time.
03:50:00 In this section of the YouTube video titled "WHO TF DID I MARRY?! (FULL SERIES😳)", the speaker shares her discovery of her husband's potentially false social security number. After deciding to find a new job to gain financial independence, she was asked to provide her spouse's information on the background packet. When she noticed that the numbers didn't match the ones from their marriage license, she became suspect and realized that her husband had given her false information. The first three digits of a social security number are determined by the state of issuance, and since her husband is from Pennsylvania, the numbers should have started with a specific set of digits. However, what was on her background packet was different, leading her to question the authenticity of her husband's identity.
03:55:00 In this section of the YouTube video titled "WHO TF DID I MARRY?! (FULL SERIES😳)", the speaker shares her discovery of discrepancies between her husband's marriage license number and the social security number provided in his background check. Despite finding inconsistencies, she decided to take a risk and ran another background check with a different social security number. The results showed addresses in Georgia, Pennsylvania, and Rhode Island but did not reveal any connection to California, where her husband claimed to have attended San Diego State University. Concerned about this inconsistency, she called the university to request a transcript but was met with no results. The speaker then questioned her husband about the issue, and the conversation will be continued in part 26 of the series.
In the YouTube video "WHO TF DID I MARRY?! (FULL SERIES😱)", the speaker shares her discovery of multiple deceptions in her partner's past, including false claims about his football career and his marital history. Suspicions were raised when the speaker found inconsistencies in her partner's stories and his worsening knee pain, which he claimed was an old football injury. After the death of his stepdaughter, the speaker received a call from his ex-wife in Georgia, revealing that the husband had not been truthful about their marriage and living locations. The speaker then received divorce documents from the Metro Atlanta County court, further confirming her partner's dishonesty. In a call with Barbara, the ex-wife, she admitted that everything her husband told the speaker was a lie, and the speaker discovered that he had used different names online. Through her investigation, the speaker found a web of deceit involving her husband's past marriages, family history, and injury claims. Ultimately, she discovered his infidelity with a woman named Peaches and chose to end the marriage.
04:00:00 In this section of the YouTube video "WHO TF DID I MARRY?! (FULL SERIES😳)", the speaker reveals that her partner claimed to have been a private citizen at San Diego State, where he had played football. He asserted that his father paid the university to keep his name and social security number private, allowing him to be a "private citizen" who was not subject to publication in NCAA rosters. However, the speaker's suspicions were raised when she discovered inconsistencies in his past, including a pain in his knee that he claimed was an old football injury, but which seemed to be worsening over time. Additionally, there was no record of his attendance or participation in football at the university. At this point, they had not yet purchased a house, and the speaker had not seen the contents of his supposed savings accounts. Suddenly, one day in May, her partner received a call from his stepson, who informed him that his stepdaughter had passed away.
04:05:00 In this section of the YouTube video titled "WHO TF DID I MARRY?! (FULL SERIES😱)", the speaker explains that they received a call from their stepson informing them that his mother, the speaker's spouse, had died. The stepson also asked for the speaker's permission to give his ex-wife $2,000 towards the funeral, an agreement they had made before. Initially surprised by the news, the speaker agreed to the request, expressing sympathy for the ex-wife. However, the speaker became suspicious when they discovered that the social security number on their marriage license did not match the number given to them for the new job. They ran several background checks and found inconsistencies, including an address associated with the ex-wife in states where the husband had allegedly lived. Unable to find the ex-wife on social media, the speaker searched public records in different counties to protect her identity.
04:10:00 In this section of the YouTube video titled "WHO TF DID I MARRY?! (FULL SERIES😱)", the creator shares her discovery of a divorce record between her partner and his ex-wife in Metro Atlanta, Georgia. Despite her partner claiming to have gotten married and divorced in San Diego, California, the record showed otherwise. Driven by this new information, the creator went to the Metro Atlanta County court in person to request the divorce documents, which proved that her partner had been served in Georgia during the divorce proceedings and had filed a "poor person's affidavit" due to financial hardship. The divorce had been finalized within six months, and neither party had requested spousal support. With her partner's ex-wife's phone number listed on the documents, the creator took it upon herself to find the woman and uncover more information about her past.
04:15:00 In this section of the "Who TF Did I Marry?! (FULL SERIES)" YouTube video, the speaker recounts her phone conversation with her husband's ex-wife, Barbara. When she called Barbara using her friend's phone, Barbara acknowledged that she could provide valuable information about her husband, Legion, as she was the only one who knew the truth about him. During the conversation, Barbara confirmed that whatever Legion told the speaker was a lie and revealed that he had used different names online, one of which was not even his real name. The ex-wife shared her experience of meeting and marrying Legion, confirming that they had never resided in California and had gotten married and divorced in Georgia. The speaker explained how she had obtained Barbara's number and shared the truth with her, which caused Barbara to laugh in disbelief.
04:20:00 In this section of the YouTube video "WHO TF DID I MARRY?! (FULL SERIES stomp\)"), the speaker describes a phone conversation she had with her ex-husband's ex-wife. The ex-wife confirmed that her divorce from the speaker's ex-husband was finalized and expressed her desire for them to keep their communications separate. The speaker reassured the ex-wife that she would not reveal their conversation to her ex or use it for legal purposes. The ex-wife shared her own experience of being deceived by her ex-husband and encouraged the speaker not to blame herself. She mentioned that there was an ex-girlfriend with the same name as his aunt, who had lived with him and had exposed his lies before their relationship ended. The ex-wife warned the speaker about her ex-husband's history of manipulation. The conversation ended with the ex-wife assuring the speaker that their daughter was fine. The speaker revealed that she did not have the heart to tell the ex-wife about her own experiences with her ex-husband's deceit.
04:25:00 In this section of the YouTube video titled "WHO TF DID I MARRY?! (FULL SERIES😳)", the speaker recounts his conversation with the ex-wife of his partner, Legion. She revealed that Legion might have been exposed to COVID-19 and encouraged the speaker not to blame himself. The speaker took the long way home that night, unable to be around Legion, and began investigating his past. When he looked up Legion's mother's obituary, he found inconsistencies. While it listed Legion's father, his brother in Philadelphia, and his wife, it did not mention his current wife, Latoya, or his sisters Shante and Kim. The speaker was confused and determined to uncover the truth.
04:30:00 In this section of the YouTube video titled "WHO TF DID I MARRY?! (FULL SERIES😳)", the speaker expresses their confusion about their husband's past marital history. They mention finding an obituary for an alleged wife named Latoya, despite their husband only mentioning one previous marriage. The speaker is trying to piece together the truth, having already established that their husband is a pathological liar. They express their frustration at not being able to find answers quickly enough and plan to clarify some things in an upcoming video (Part 30). The speaker also emphasizes that they are telling the story in chronological order and that viewers may not understand certain aspects if they haven't watched previous videos. They also explain that their family and friends were not aware of the issues in the speaker's marriage.
04:35:00 In this section of the YouTube video titled "WHO TF DID I MARRY?! (FULL SERIES😉)", the speaker discusses her decision to hide the red flags she encountered in her marriage from her friends and family. She explains that she did not want to appear stupid or weak, so she put on a facade of a happy marriage despite knowing that her husband was hiding proof of funds and was involved in sexting with other women. Her aunt, who is described as very supportive, did not give her advice to stay or leave the marriage but rather expressed concern and advised her that her husband was not her boyfriend in the sense that the situation was not as simple as a breakup. The speaker's mother, who visited during the marriage, had no idea of the issues and believed her son was a nice guy. The speaker clarifies that her family and friends were always supportive and she did not share the specifics of her concerns with them.
04:40:00 In this section of the YouTube video series "WHO TF DID I MARRY?! (FULL SERIES😱)", the speaker describes how her husband's promotion within their company led her to suspect his true identity. She shares that he initially came into her life as a regional manager in March 2020, and later got promoted to VP of production or operations. Upon showing her the paperwork, she was presented with a substantial salary, benefits including an executive assistant, use of a company helicopter, and a car within a certain price range. These discoveries led her to suspect that he was hiding something and prompted her to delve deeper into his background. She subsequently discovered a divorce record between him and another woman, revealing his past marriage and a temporary protection order against both parties. Although she initially couldn't find his father's obituary, she eventually located it on a legacy.com-type website, which contained information about his family history in Rhode Island. These findings confirmed her suspicions that something was amiss in their relationship.
04:45:00 In this section of the YouTube video "WHO TF DID I MARRY?! (FULL SERIES🤯)", the creator shares how they discovered that their partner's deceased grandmother, whom he claimed had died from covid in 2020, had actually passed away in 2008. The creator explains that they found this information while looking for her name in an obituary. The obituary listed several family members, but not the two sisters of their partner, Shanté and Kim. The partner had introduced them to these sisters and claimed that they lived in Philadelphia and Nashville. The creator expresses confusion about the missing siblings and the inconsistency between the death dates. Additionally, the partner was suffering from an injury to his knee, which he claimed was from a football injury. The creator states that they believe he was lying about the injury and suspects that there was more to it than he was letting on. The partner kept making excuses about making doctor's appointments for the injury, but the creator became increasingly concerned and eventually uncovered evidence of two divorces, no record of the partner in San Diego State, and a background that showed him living in multiple states. The discovery of the grandmother's obituary and the inconsistencies surrounding it added to the creator's growing suspicion about their partner's deceit.
04:50:00 In this section of the YouTube video titled "WHO TF DID I MARRY?! (FULL SERIES🤯)", the speaker shares her discovery of her husband's infidelity and his increasing health issues. After suspecting that something was amiss in their marriage, she spoke to the pastor, who revealed that her husband had not been sincere about wanting to work on their relationship. The husband was bedridden, barely eating, and heavily reliant on Power Aids. The speaker also found text messages on his work phone between him and another woman. These discoveries led her to end the marriage, having accepted a new job offer and put in her notice at her previous job. Despite her husband's claimed knee injury, which she believed was a symptom of something more serious, she no longer cared. The husband still possessed his work phone, which had not been turned in or wiped, allowing the speaker to uncover the infidelity.
04:55:00 In this section of the YouTube video titled "WHO TF DID I MARRY?! (FULL SERIES!!!)", the speaker discovers her husband's text messages with a woman named Peaches, whom he met on the dating website POF in February 2021. The speaker explains that Peaches was identified as a prostitute based on the text messages, which contained conversations about prices for various services. The messages were not continuous every day and there were breaks in between them. The speaker mentions that when she read the messages, she was relieved. She had been struggling with the idea of staying in a marriage with a lying partner, and the discovery of her husband's infidelity gave her grounds for divorce. She took screenshots of the messages as evidence before returning the phone, which had been deactivated. The next part of the video deals with the day her husband was kicked out of their home.