Summary of Un Curso de Milagros. De pecados y errores (07-01-23)

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This video discusses the importance of having a relationship that is based on love, not sex. It explains that when two people try to become one, they are excluding God from their relationship and losing their identity. This is why, according to the video, those who are chasing an exclusive relationship are always losing sight of what love really is.

00:00:00 In this video, Maria Isabel discusses the concept of "deriving one's power from the death of another." She says that this happens involuntarily, and that the person seeking this power "uses the word interchangeably with 'annex.'" She goes on to say that this process happens unconsciously, and that it is the first exchange mentioned in the course of the video.
00:05:00 In this video, Andres discusses how humans often try to change themselves in order to make themselves more appealing to others, which is referred to as self-deception. He goes on to describe how this can lead to problems in relationships, as the person seeking the relationship change may become resentful of the original self once it is replaced.
00:10:00 The video discusses the concept of love, and how it can be understood in terms of relationships. The speaker discusses how love can only be real if it is based on physicality, and that in order to have a true love relationship, both people involved must be willing to give up their independence. The speaker goes on to say that love is not something that can be defined easily, and that it is forgiveness, not love, that is the true key to unlocking its full potential. Finally, the speaker talks about how when people allow themselves to be in a relationship without conditions, they are actually freeing themselves from the burden of guilt.
00:15:00 The video discusses the concept of "special relationships," and how they differ from regular relationships. The speaker discusses how, in a special relationship, two people are focused on each other exclusively, instead of on other things in their lives. This focus can lead to a loss of perspective, as the two people become focused only on the physical relationship, instead of the spiritual connection that is supposed to be at the heart of a special relationship. The speaker concludes the video by discussing how, if we are looking for a relationship that is "special," we should look for one that is based on a physical connection and not on emotional or spiritual connection.
00:20:00 The video discusses the importance of having a relationship that is based on love, not sex. It explains that when two people try to become one, they are excluding God from their relationship and losing their identity. This is why, according to the video, those who are chasing an exclusive relationship are always losing sight of what love really is. A relationship based on love does not exclude anyone, and instead includes all of the universe. Once you have crossed the bridge into this type of relationship, the value of the body will decline, and you will no longer need to emphasize its beauty or determine the value of your relationship.
00:25:00 In this video, the importance of the special relationship between a person and their body is explained. There are other elements added to the equation, but the body always begins with the main focus. Once you've crossed the bridge, the value of the body will decrease in your eyes so you no longer need to emphasize it. You'll realize that its only value is allowing you to take your brothers with you to the bridge so they can be liberated together. The bridge itself is only a transition in the perspective of reality. On the other hand, over here you see everything very distorted and from a wrong perspective. What is small and insignificant is exaggerated and given value over here. During the transition period, there is a period of confusion in which one can experience a very real sense of disorientation. This will be seen in the next chapter. How this transition occurs and the movements it generates will be repeated in chapter 4. During the transition there is a period of confusion in which one can experience a very real sense of disorientation. You shouldn't be afraid of this. It simply means that you have been ready to abandon the distorted perspective that seemed to maintain your world intact. This distorted perspective is built around the special relationship. If you didn't have this
00:30:00 The video discusses the benefits of breaking free from rigid thinking and how to adapt to a new reality. Initially, you may resist the transition, but eventually you will understand that it is better to have been wrong about relationships in the past. At first, you will feel attracted to the forms of a relationship but will not see the content. The content of a special relationship is imbalance, madness, and lack of satisfaction. Once you no longer see illusions in a relationship, you will see what is behind the form and no longer be attracted to it. This does not mean you distance yourself from your brother, it means that you recognize your own guilt and will be unwilling to betray yourself again. The vision of the spirit will accompany you, since you have accepted it.
00:35:00 The speaker discusses how being comfortable with being wrong can lead to a new perspective, understanding that there is nothing better than knowing God is with you no matter what. He then goes on to explain that in order to be able to experience this, you must be willing to let go of what is false. This can be done by being kind to yourself and waiting for the right time. Finally, the speaker encourages people to let go of guilt and cling to God instead.
00:40:00 The video discusses the difference between the ability of the saint to serve two masters simultaneously and the saint's use of a special relationship to achieve that goal. The saint can still serve both masters, but it takes effort and concentration to do so. The saint also points out that, while the saint can use the special relationship to achieve sanctification, it is still a step in the right direction.
00:45:00 The video discusses the importance of having a real, lasting relationship with Jesus Christ, and how things can become difficult if one focuses only on some aspects of the relationship while overlooking others. The speaker goes on to say that it is much more difficult and loving for the Spirit to help someone clean up their mistakes and correct them, rather than telling them that they have to feel attracted to the Holy Spirit while still having a special relationship. If you are willing to do this by, for example, not giving up something that you cherish, the Spirit will help you to see things more expansively. This allows you to come to a different conclusion than if you simply discard your original idea of what is valuable because you have added new elements to your perception. In other words, by expanding your understanding of what is valuable, the Spirit leads you to a different conclusion about what you want.
00:50:00 The video discusses the idea that, in order to be happy, one must be content with oneself - no matter what others may think or say. It explains that, in order to be happy, someone must not be addicted to anything, as they will be content with nothing if they are not happy. Relationships - even special ones - can also be a way of escaping this feeling of dissatisfaction, but they will eventually fail if not managed correctly. It is also important to understand that, while we are in a relationship, we are not always aware of what is truly important to us. Our first - and usually most special - relationship often leaves us with illusions about what is truly important in life. After a while, our illusions wear off and we realize that what is really important to us is our own survival. If we are not in agreement with our partner, the relationship will eventually end. And, in order to start afresh, we must be content with the same - or similar - emotions we experienced in our previous relationship. What a strange way of thinking!
00:55:00 This video lectures on the error of expecting someone else to change for you, and the importance of taking personal responsibility for your own happiness. It notes that, in order to truly be happy, you must first correct your own perception of reality. It advises that, in order to achieve this, you must be willing to let go of any expectations or preconceptions about the relationship. It goes on to say that, in order to remain happy in a relationship, it is important to maintain a sense of detachment from the other person.

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This video discusses the importance of being able to see the attraction that exists between people, and how this can help us to understand the behavior. It also explains that the reason why this person is attracting you is because they are hiding an emotional pain.

01:00:00 In this YouTube video, a Spanish speaker discusses how to use the moment of sanctity to avoid sacrificing things that are still valuable to the person. The speaker says that this can be done by releasing control over something that is still valued, and allows the Holy Spirit to take it away. The alternative is to live one's experience of sanctity disconnected from the Holy Spirit.
01:05:00 The video discusses how to deal with mistakes and sins by focusing on love instead of hatred. It explains that, once we are able to forgive ourselves and others, we can be free and happy in our relationships. If we keep focusing on mistakes and sins, we will never be able to find happiness in our special relationships. Instead, we need to focus on love and let go of our attachments in order to be free. If we are able to do this, the love of God will be able to find us and offer us consolation.
01:10:00 In this video, a Spanish speaker explains the concept of "specialism." Specialism refers to the idea that each person has their own set of standards and rules that govern their relationship. It is important to remember that this relationship is special, and that one's own responsibility is not contingent on the actions of the other. This video provides an example of how one can become free from guilt by focusing on the responsibility of the other.
01:15:00 The video discusses how to focus mentally when you're in a certain environment, and how this can be applied to your own prayer life. It talks about how when you're at one level and you try to go to another level, you are invoking the Holy Spirit because that is the level of the Spirit. This is a good reminder to always pray to God. The video discusses an example of how a relationship can change over time, and how the mind naturally matures. It talks about how when we try to force a maturation process, it can be seen as a sin and not an error. This is why it is important to recognize where we are in terms of spiritual development, and to use a contrast to see if we are not fooling ourselves. It says that this is important because if we don't recognize when we are at a certain stage of spiritual development, we may be unconsciously adapting to our physical changes, but love is not based on physical or emotional changes. If someone in a 20- or 30-year-old relationship were to be told that their partner would age suddenly by 30 or 40 years, they might feel preferred to Hell because their relationship is likely to be over by then.
01:20:00 The video discusses the importance of being honest with oneself, and how doing so can help one to advance in their spiritual journey. It explains that, in order to speed up the process, it is important to start off slowly, and not to rush things. It also warns of the dangers of trying to speed things up prematurely, as this can lead to frustration, sacrifice, and even anger. However, with patience and perseverance, the process will eventually end in success.
01:25:00 The video discusses the difference between error and sin, and how error is more familiar to us. It goes on to talk about how to transform perception, and how to avoid confusing levels of what is being done. The presenter explains that while we will continue to make mistakes, the progress made in transforming perception will lead to greater success in the long term. At that point, the contrast between what is being valued and what is actually present will be sufficient to bring about change.
01:30:00 The video discusses the idea that it is impossible to abandon the past, and that a special relationship is an attempt to revive the past and alter it. This is because a special relationship is based on a past concept that we would not have thought of ourselves as being insufficient without, and that we need to compensate for our insufficiency with this type of relationship. All remembered injuries, offenses, and hardships form part of the special relationship, which becomes the medium through which you attempt to repair your broken love-life.
01:35:00 In this video, a special relationship is described as a compensation for all the ideas we've added to our distorted and distorted concept of ourselves. Who we are looking for as a special relationship is someone who can give us everything we lack and from where comes everything we believe to lack. All the pain we still remember, all the disappointments and deprival we experienced in the past form part of the special relationship that turns into the means to repair our wounded love-self. I seek out what's outside of myself in order to give form to what I lack. I look for what I lack in someone else and what they can provide is based on something bad that happened in the past to which I cling and another must pay for. We remember that the special relationship is sought to project all the anger we carry within us. The special relationship is vengeance against the past. By trying to eliminate all past suffering, we pass over the present for it is obsessed with the past and completely committed to it. No special relationship is experienced in the present. Shadows of the past wrap around and turn it into what has no meaning in the present and if it has no meaning in the present, it has no meaning at all in the future. You can't change the past except in dreams
01:40:00 In this video, "Un Curso de Milagros. De pecados y errores (07-01-23)," the importance of being able to see the attraction that exists between people is discussed. It is important to be able to identify when you see someone who attracts you, as this will enable you to learn and understand the behavior. If you feel anxious or uncomfortable around this person, look below the surface to find what is causing that feeling. If you don't have that feeling, what would happen and what you wouldn't be able to do would be explained. The reason why this person is attracting you is because they are hiding an emotional pain. The course is discussing all of this and translating it into attraction terms so that you don't see the true purpose that it is pointing to. There is no fantasy that is not hiding a dream of retaliation for past events. What you seek in a special relationship is not revenge, and even when hate and cruelty appear for a fleeting moment, the illusion of love is shattered fatally. However, what the ego never allows is that any of this reach your consciousness. The special relationship is the externalization of your revenge against yourself. I'm going to say it again, but the only thing the ego will
01:45:00 In this video, Rosario asks questions about how the Holy Spirit uses contrasts and comparisons to help us learn to distinguish between reality and illusions. He also says that we should seek and find His message in the moment of salvation, and that we should never forget His love for us.
01:50:00 In this video, Rosa explains that the reality and illusion distinction is often recognized emotionally when the ego presents one option and the Holy Spirit presents another, both of which are perceived differently emotionally. That difference or comparison between one and the other is what serves to teach us to make correct decisions. Rosalie asks Andrés a question, and he responds with a paragraph from Chapter 8 of his book, "The Gifts of God." The paragraph discusses how gifts of God are devoid of reality unless they are received. The video then moves on to Martina, who explains that the same thing is true for instant Salvation. If you are not predestined to receive it, Salvation will not happen for you. This message is aimed at those who are predestined, as it is convenient for the process of learning to occur when those who are learning are in a proper disposition. Finally, Andrés explains that the separation between us and God remains even though we are learning.
01:55:00 In this video, spiritual teacher Andres shares the idea that when your thoughts stray towards a special relationship that still attracts you, you can enter into a holy moment and allow yourself to be freed. He explains that there is a reluctance to replace your perception with that of the spirit still present, and if you are not in that place yet, you will have the disposition to recognize it and receive a correction. Lastly, he says that if what he has said is the same as what is said in chapter 77 of the Bible, then you may be able to continue resisting love for a while longer, but eventually the power of the spirit will prevail. Andres discusses the difference between a healthy relationship and an unhealthy one, explaining that in the healthy relationship, you are accepting of your partner for who they are, despite any shortcomings. He goes on to say that in order to have a healthy relationship, you must be willing to let go of your need for love in order to allow it to grow and flourish. He also discusses the concept of specialization, explaining that it is a way of reinforcing and protecting your sense of self. He concludes by saying that, as you learn to accept yourself for who you are, love will find a way to grow and blossom in

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In the video, Alberto covers the importance of learning why we make the decisions we make, how we respond emotionally, and the concept of habits. He also asks a question for the next class.