Summary of How Marriage Counselling Can RUIN Your Marriage

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The speaker in this video discusses how marriage counseling can ruin a marriage by causing disrespect between the husband and wife. She suggests that instead of attending counseling, couples should focus on expressing their love and needs to each other.

• 00:00:00 Laura Doyle, a New York Times bestselling author, discusses how traditional marriage counseling can ruin marriages. She cites a UCLA study which found that over 70% of couples who go through this type of counseling end up divorcing within one year. Doyle recommends mimicking the successful business entrepreneurs and learning from the 15 years plus of successful marriages that she has observed.
• 00:05:00 This woman discusses how marriage counselling can ruin a marriage by degrading the husband to a stranger in front of him. She says that respect is important for men and that when a woman takes the time to downgrade her husband, it is profound. She also says that when a woman begins to change her behaviour, her husband responds differently.
• 00:10:00 The author describes how controlling her husband led to her feeling like she was "always told what to do," which created more work and stress for her. She eventually discovered that effective communication is not controlled by one spouse, but by both. This knowledge helped her turn her marriage around.
• 00:15:00 The video discusses how marriage counselling can ruin a marriage, and how couples often don't realize that they are being disrespectful until after it has already ruined the relationship. The speaker suggests that couples focus on respect and love, and that respecting one's husband is the number-one thing that men want from their wives.
• 00:20:00 This video discusses how marriage counseling can damage a marriage, and how a best-selling author, Laura Doyle, has seen firsthand that it does. Doyle recommends that couples try a different approach, focusing on things that are enjoyable for both partners.
• 00:25:00 The speaker discusses how marriage counselling can ruin a marriage, citing an example of a woman who hurt her husband by fulfilling prophecies. The speaker suggests that husbands and wives should instead express their desires through actions rather than words.
• 00:30:00 The speaker offers advice on how to have a successful marriage, emphasizing that respect and love are essential ingredients. She recommends that men and women learn about each other's needs and desires and work to balance them accordingly. This is good news for anyone looking to improve their relationship.