Summary of FLOW SESSIONS: Alain De Botton and Jason Silva

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Alain De Botton and Jason Silva discuss the idea that beauty is both pleasurable and saddening, and how it affects us as humans. They talk about the importance of understanding the human condition, and how it is both sacred and profane. They also discuss the importance of friendship and love, and how we can improve our relationships by engaging in activities like turning to a stranger and saying something you're ashamed of, regretful, or afraid of.

00:00:00 Alain de Botton discusses the importance of understanding the human condition, and how it is both sacred and profane. He also quotes Ernest Becker, who discusses the dichotomy of being a god with an anus and a worm.
00:05:00 Alain De Botton and Jason Silva discuss the idea of beauty being both pleasurable and saddening, and how it affects us as humans. They also talk about the idea of home and how it can be elusive.
00:10:00 Alain De Botton discusses how making movies is a way to get into the editing room and set them to music, and how he learned this phrase "happy-sad." He talks about how flowers can be an example of something that can move people to tears, and how this relates to his belief that all humans are imperfect. He talks about how suffering is an inherent part of human nature, and how once we accept this, it creates a more open and genuine friendship.
00:15:00 Alain De Botton and Jason Silva discuss the importance of friendship and love, and how we can improve our relationships by engaging in activities like turning to a stranger and saying something you're ashamed of, regretful, or afraid of. They also discuss how academia is often wedded to a naive scientific model, and how we need both objective reality and personal experience in order to create meaning in our lives.
00:20:00 Alain De Botton and Jason Silva discuss the importance of separating art and science, and how, in order to maintain an objective reality, both must be kept in check. De Botton also speaks about his experiences as a host of National Geographic's "Brain Games" and his interest in the ineffable interior landscapes that humans experience.
00:25:00 The video discusses how the aesthetic can be found in various aspects of life, including in scientific discoveries and in art. It argues that, in order to appreciate the aesthetic, we need to be willing to forget what we know, and to move beyond the rationalist mindset.
00:30:00 In the video, Alain De Botton and Jason Silva discuss the role of art in life. De Botton believes that art is a larger realm than just paintings and that it can also be found in things such as falling in love, recovering from an illness, or taking an airplane journey. Silva disagrees, believing that all experiences can be idealized and that there is no "true" or "real" world. De Botton argues that when religion is removed from people's lives, they are deprived of important spiritual resources. He believes that the current era is a post-religious one, and that people need to be reminded of the importance of transcendence and community in their lives.
00:35:00 The video discusses how a transcendental experience can help alleviate despair in a modern individualistic society. Alain De Botton and Jason Silva discuss how a narrative and interpretive framework matters, and Neil deGrasso Tyson adds that when we see the universe, we don't feel small. Finally, the video discusses how to achieve a transcendental experience.
00:40:00 Alain De Botton and Jason Silva discuss the need for a revival of religious values in the face of a secular society. Silva says that one way to achieve this is to create networks of temples that replace traditional religious structures. De Botton says that this is a difficult task, but one that is necessary if society is to find meaning in an increasingly secular world.
00:45:00 The video discusses how the divide between artists who can create beautiful art but cannot write or do practical tasks, and practical people who are successful but indifferent to the ends of their skills, has narrowed in recent years. It suggests that cinema should return to its original purpose of mirroring the consciousness of the viewer, and asks what the current purpose of cinema is.
00:50:00 The speaker discusses how art can create geniuses, how intellectuals can help creators to create the best art, and how the human condition creates a conundrum for adult life. They discuss how Freud's insights on sexuality play into the idea of art creating geniuses.
00:55:00 Alain De Botton and Jason Silva discuss the idea that there is nothing wrong with not being able to have perfect, monogamous relationships. They discuss the idea that humans are inextricably linked with love and that there is beauty in accepting the truth of our complex, individual lives.

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Alain De Botton and Jason Silva discuss the impact of incompleteness on human life. De Botton shares a personal story about how he longs to live in a moment with his partner forever, but recognizes that it will eventually pass. The clip concludes with De Botton and Silva reflecting on the experiment, and how De Botton's temperament makes him ideally suited for it.