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The video 13_Cap. 9: Hábito 5: Busca primero entender, luego ser entendido discusses the importance of understanding and listening to others before attempting to understand or listen to others. It talks about the two important stages of the habit: first understanding, and then being understood. It offers the example of a father who wrote one of his successful books when he was 19 years old. He was constantly told by others how good his books were, but he was also very smart. He thought after finishing his first book that he was smarter than his father. Two years later, he finished his second book and was convinced that he was smarter than his father. The second half of the habit, being understood, is as important as the first half of the habit, practicing first. Today, he lost, won, or tied games. He does not tell his mother how he feels, he does not listen to her, and he does not understand her. He has been carrying these emotions inside him while his parents continue to have no idea how he feels. However, this is not healthy. He remembers that feelings that are not expressed are buried alive and then come out in more unpleasant ways. He must talk about his feelings
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