In the "Learning Pirkei Avot (Ethics of the Fathers) - #34" YouTube video, the speaker shares personal experiences before delving into the topic of constant Torah study and the importance of deep understanding. He emphasizes the idea of turning over and examining the text to uncover deeper levels of knowledge, using the analogy of trying to figure out how a printer cartridge works. The speaker also discusses the concept of enabling constraints within the Torah, emphasizing the importance of properly regimenting experiences within the religious context. Ben Hei Hei, a convert to Judaism, is mentioned, with his famous saying, "According to the pain is the gain," highlighting the transformative nature of engaging with the Torah despite its challenges. The speaker encourages starting education at a young age due to the receptiveness of a child's mind and the progressive nature of learning in Judaism.
00:00:00 In this section of the YouTube video titled "Learning Pirkei Avot (Ethics of the Fathers) - #34," the speaker begins by sharing some personal news about his mother's illness and upcoming family reunion. He then expresses his frustration over losing many notes on his computer and iPad. Despite the setbacks, he remains optimistic and believes that all things happen for a reason. The video continues with a discussion on the previous mishna about being bold like a leopard and light as an eagle, and the contradiction of not being haughty and thinking little of oneself. The speaker explains that these traits can be used for good if oriented correctly. He also mentions that this was originally the last mishna of Ethics of the Fathers but a few more were added later, and they will be moving on to a new chapter soon.
00:05:00 In this section of the "Learning Pirkei Avot (Ethics of the Fathers) - #34" YouTube video, the speaker discusses the brazenness of the generation before the Messiah and how they might be indicators of the coming Messiah. The speaker also mentions that he hopes the temple will be built soon, despite warning against being brazen. The conversation then shifts to Ben Bag Bag, a sage from Babylon who spoke in Aramaic due to being a convert and raised in Babylon. The speaker explains that Ben Bag Bag's name was hidden to protect converts during a dangerous time, and he was also known as Ben HEI. The speaker quotes Ben Bag Bag's famous saying, "Delve and delve into it for all is in it, see with it grow old and worn into it, do not budge from it for there is nothing better."
00:10:00 In this section of the "Learning Pirkei Avot (Ethics of the Fathers) - #34" YouTube video, the speaker discusses the importance of constant Torah study, using the phrase "turn it over and over" or "delve into it" as a metaphor for the deep and ongoing exploration of the Torah. The speaker emphasizes that this repetition is not just for memorization but also for enhancing understanding and revealing new insights. The Torah is believed to have infinite wisdom, and despite centuries of study, there is still room for fresh insights and interpretations. The speaker encourages the audience to engage with the Torah as a renewing source of life, emphasizing that even if one has studied it before, there is always more to learn. The speaker also uses the analogy of trying to figure out how a printer cartridge works to illustrate the idea of turning something over and over to understand it.
00:15:00 In this section of the "Learning Pirkei Avot (Ethics of the Fathers) - #34" YouTube video, the speaker discusses the importance of delving into the Torah and other sacred texts for personal growth and understanding. He emphasizes the idea of rumination, turning over and examining the text to uncover deeper levels of knowledge. While this practice can lead to great insights, the speaker warns against constant rumination on negative topics. Instead, one should focus on important subjects like the Torah, which encompasses a vast array of knowledge and wisdom. The speaker believes that the Torah contains enough information to serve as a roadmap for novel information and concepts, even in modern times. By studying the Torah, one can become a "renaissance man," gaining expertise in various fields.
00:20:00 In this section of the YouTube video titled "Learning Pirkei Avot (Ethics of the Fathers) - #34," the speakers discuss the idea that Moses was not only given the written Torah but also the oral tradition, including the principles that would lead to various opinions. They reference a story about Moses visiting Rabbi Akiva in a time machine and feeling lost during a lesson, but when Rabbi Akiva explained that these principles were passed down from Moses, Moses' spirit was revived. The speakers emphasize that the Torah is a comprehensive divine teaching, embodying wisdom in various domains of life, and Jews see themselves as the "chimney cleaners" who help clear the way for the world to connect to God.
00:25:00 In this section of the video, the speaker discusses the concept of "seeing in it," or gaining deep understanding and wisdom from the Torah. He explains that simply reading the Torah over and over again is not enough; one must engage in deep analysis and experimentation to gain the special vision or Torah knowledge that allows for discernment and the correct path in life. This process requires dedication and time, much like the 10,000 hours it takes to master a skill. The speaker uses the analogy of Neo in The Matrix to illustrate this idea, emphasizing the importance of not just looking at the Torah, but also understanding and applying its teachings to one's life. The constant turning and delving into the Torah also leads to personal growth and aging, reminding us that the Torah is not just for young people.
00:30:00 In this section of the "Learning Pirkei Avot (Ethics of the Fathers) - #34" video, the speaker emphasizes the importance of engaging with the Torah throughout one's life. He explains that immersing oneself in Torah study not only provides guidance but also grants the privilege of becoming an old scholar. The speaker also highlights the beauty of the Torah's history and the dynamic relationship between the individual and the Torah. Furthermore, he stresses the obligation to never depart from the Torah and engage with it in every aspect of life, including daily activities like eating, drinking, and sleeping. The speaker encourages viewing life through the prism of the Torah to create a hierarchy of values and appreciate the gifts received.
00:35:00 In this section of the "Learning Pirkei Avot (Ethics of the Fathers) - #34" YouTube video, the speaker discusses the concept of enabling constraints in the context of the Torah. He explains that while the Torah allows for engagement in various aspects of life, such as nature, sex, and pleasure, these experiences should be properly regimented and oriented within the religious context. The speaker emphasizes that the Torah offers a vast and deep understanding of life, providing a moral compass and shaping one's personality and character traits. The study of Torah is not limited to reading but involves engaging in life and living it through the teachings. The ultimate benefit of studying Torah is the full realization of one's plan under Divine supervision.
00:40:00 In this section of the "Learning Pirkei Avot (Ethics of the Fathers) - #34" video, the speaker discusses Ben Hei Hei, a convert to Judaism, who famously said, "According to the pain is the gain." This statement reflects the idea that the challenges and hardships of living as a Jew, particularly during Exile, serve to test one's sincerity and commitment to the Covenant. Ben Hei Hei's perspective highlights the transformative nature of engaging with the Torah, despite its difficulties, and the psychological benefits it brings, such as increased sensitivity, spiritual growth, and connection to others. The speaker also emphasizes that the effort put into following the commandments is more important than the achievements themselves when facing judgment. The idea of "According to the pain is the gain" is not just about enduring pain for its own sake but understanding the challenges and focusing on the effort put into overcoming them.
00:45:00 In this section of the "Learning Pirkei Avot (Ethics of the Fathers) - #34" YouTube video, Rabbi Melod discusses the importance of starting education at a young age, using the analogy of writing on fresh paper. The mind of a child is clear and receptive, making it the best time to begin learning. The ages for various stages of education are mentioned, including five for scripture, ten for mishna, and fifteen for the obligation to observe mitzvot. Time is valued highly, as it is worth more than just money, and should be taken seriously. The potential of children is emphasized, and delaying education until an older age is discouraged due to the neuroplasticity of the brain.
00:50:00 In this section of the "Learning Pirkei Avot (Ethics of the Fathers) - #34" YouTube video, the speaker discusses the significance of the five-year period before a child begins studying the Mishna. This period is considered a time of preparation for Torah study, where children learn the basics of the Torah and its concepts. At the age of five, a child is ready to take on the Mishna, which is not an exclusion from continuing Torah learning. Instead, it's an addition of a new toolkit to deepen and expand their understanding of the Torah. The speaker emphasizes that the five-year mark is arbitrary and can vary from child to child. The environment and examples set by parents also play a role in a child's desire to engage in Torah study.
00:55:00 In this section of the "Learning Pirkei Avot (Ethics of the Fathers) - #34" video, the speaker discusses the progressive nature of learning and growth in Judaism. Each stage of learning, from foundational scripture to the mishna and mitzvot, builds upon the previous one. The age of 13, when a child becomes a man and is obligated to observe the laws of the Torah, marks a significant transition. However, the age of responsibility and maturity can vary depending on cultural and individual contexts. The speaker also notes the physical, biological, and psychological developments that occur during this period of growth.
In the "Learning Pirkei Avot (Ethics of the Fathers) - #34" YouTube video, the speaker discusses various stages in Jewish education and life, emphasizing the significance of different ages. At 13, individuals begin studying the Mishna and Talmud, which deepens their understanding of the Torah. Marriage is encouraged when one is ready, not necessarily at the age of 18. At 20, individuals should start pursuing a livelihood and living a proper life. The ages of 30 and 40 mark physical and intellectual peaks, respectively, and are times for service, teaching, and deeper Torah study. At 50, individuals have gained wisdom and experience, deserving of respect. In old age, individuals are encouraged to focus on cognitive abilities and discernment, and to continue striving for wisdom and strength. The speaker also discusses the importance of respecting the elderly and taking advantage of youth to learn. The video includes personal stories and reflections on aging, family traditions, and the importance of taking action in life.
01:00:00 In this section of the YouTube video titled "Learning Pirkei Avot (Ethics of the Fathers) - #34," the speaker discusses the significance of different stages in one's Jewish education. According to the speaker, the Torah becomes more meaningful and applicable as a child grows older and starts to understand its teachings on a deeper level. At the age of 13, after completing the Bar Mitzvah, the individual begins studying the Mishna and the Talmud, which expands on the Torah and provides discussions about its teachings. The Talmud is a rich and fascinating piece of work that deepens one's understanding of the Torah and the Mishna. After dedicating five years to studying the Mishna, the individual can move on to the Gemara, which engages them with the Torah, Mishna, and scripture all intertwined. The speaker also touches upon the importance of marriage and the responsibilities that come with it, emphasizing the need for maturity and preparation.
01:05:00 In this section of the "Learning Pirkei Avot (Ethics of the Fathers) - #34" YouTube video, the speaker discusses the concept of getting married at the age of 18 and the responsibilities that come with it. While it is a common practice in some communities, the speaker emphasizes that it is not a commandment to get married at that age. Instead, marriage is seen as a transition into adulthood and a chance to engage more deeply with God and Torah. The speaker also warns against older individuals taking advantage of younger partners in the dating world and emphasizes the importance of allowing relationships to develop organically. The age of marriage is also discussed in relation to the amount of Torah study one has completed and the readiness to take on the responsibilities of marriage.
01:10:00 In this section of the "Learning Pirkei Avot (Ethics of the Fathers) - #34" video, the speaker discusses the importance of pursuing a livelihood and starting to act properly by the age of 20. He explains that in Israel, Orthodox Jews often engage in intensive study before joining the army or entering the workforce. The speaker also interprets the text as urging individuals to start living a proper life and being judged for their actions at this age. He emphasizes that the pursuit of a livelihood and fulfilling mitzvah (Commandments) are essential parts of this process. Overall, the speaker encourages listeners to recognize the inevitability of pursuing something and to figure out how to put their learning into action.
01:15:00 In this section of the "Learning Pirkei Avot (Ethics of the Fathers) - #34" video, the speaker discusses the significance of the age of 30 and 40 in Jewish tradition. At 30, one is believed to have reached their physical peak and is encouraged to use their strength to serve God and influence others. This is indicated by the Levites, who began their service in the temple at this age and performed physical work. Additionally, at 30, one has accumulated enough knowledge to start teaching others. At 40, one enters the age of understanding, where they can infer one thing from another and make decisions based on that. This is a more advanced level of rationalization and mental capabilities, and it's the time to delve into deeper levels of Torah study. The speaker notes that this guidance is not written in stone but is a general one, and at 40, one can start studying the mystical teachings of the Torah.
01:20:00 In this section of the "Learning Pirkei Avot (Ethics of the Fathers) - #34" YouTube video, the speaker discusses the significance of reaching the age of council, which is around 50 years old. At this age, one has completed many years of study and teaching, resulting in a sharpened sense of awareness and the ability to give good advice and insight based on personal experience. However, wisdom and experience do not necessarily come only with age, and younger individuals can also possess valuable insights. The speaker emphasizes the importance of both external and internal guidance, as the battle against the evil inclination never ends. The video also includes a parable about a man lost in the forest who seeks advice from another man who has been there for a long time, illustrating the value of live wisdom and experience, even if the person does not have all the answers. The discussion revolves around the concept of "keen" or "discernment" in Hebrew, which is a valuable trait for making decisions and navigating life.
01:25:00 In this section of the "Learning Pirkei Avot (Ethics of the Fathers) - #34" video, the speaker discusses the significance of aging and the transition into elderhood. As physical strength begins to weaken, individuals are encouraged to focus more on their cognitive abilities and discernment. The age of 60 marks a time of realization of limits and a shift in focus towards foresight and advice-giving. The speaker also touches upon the idea that as people age, they may gain additional years due to medical advancements. The aging process is also associated with the acquisition of wisdom and the attainment of a "Crown of Glory" through gray hair.
01:30:00 In this section of the "Learning Pirkei Avot (Ethics of the Fathers) - #34" video, the speaker discusses the importance of respecting the elderly and the need to continue striving for wisdom and strength throughout one's life. The speaker emphasizes that age brings wisdom and experience, deserving of respect, and encourages individuals not to wait until old age to start living a good life. The power and strength required to battle the evil inclination are also emphasized, even in old age. The speaker uses examples of individuals who remained pious and strong in their later years but also warns against complacency and the potential for corruption. The physical challenges of old age are acknowledged, but the importance of maintaining mental and intellectual capacities is emphasized. The speaker encourages individuals to take advantage of their youth and continue learning.
01:35:00 In this section of the "Learning Pirkei Avot (Ethics of the Fathers) - #34" YouTube video, the speaker discusses the mindset of someone approaching old age, around the age of 100. He describes this stage of life as a final view in the mirror, where worldly concerns become less relevant, and contemplation of the next phase of life, after death, becomes the focus. The speaker shares a conversation with his grandfather, who expresses excitement for the next phase, and suggests a sense of freedom and living life unapologetically. The speaker also mentions a riddle about an animal that walks on four legs in the morning, two legs in the evening, and three legs at night, which is said to be a reference to time. The conversation is interrupted by comments from viewers, and the speaker engages with them briefly before wrapping up the session.
01:40:00 In this section of the "Learning Pirkei Avot (Ethics of the Fathers) - #34" YouTube video, the speaker, Andrew, discusses his current situation of taking a break from school. He explains that it was not going well for him, but he was not kicked out. Instead, he was struggling to engage fully. The speaker and Andrew discuss the potential underlying issues, including questions about his future and social life. Andrew expresses feelings of relief now that the situation has become more clear, but also acknowledges the potential seriousness of the situation for his parents.
01:45:00 In this section of the YouTube video titled "Learning Pirkei Avot (Ethics of the Fathers) - #34," the speaker encourages young adults to take advantage of their time and not be worried about past expectations or societal pressures. He uses the metaphor of quicksand to describe the potential danger of getting stuck in one place, and emphasizes the importance of taking action and figuring out what one truly wants to do. The speaker also suggests creating a schedule, studying, and showing appreciation for parents during this transitional period.
01:50:00 In this section of the YouTube video titled "Learning Pirkei Avot (Ethics of the Fathers) - #34," the speaker discusses the importance of appreciating and being sensitive to one's family background and upbringing. He shares his own experience of growing up in a close-knit family and acknowledges the enjoyment of hearing about such experiences. However, he also recognizes that not everyone has had the same privilege and that constantly promoting one's positive family experiences could potentially cause discomfort for those who lack similar experiences. The speaker then shifts the conversation to other topics.
01:55:00 In this section of the YouTube video titled "Learning Pirkei Avot (Ethics of the Fathers) - #34," the speaker shares a family tradition that takes place during Hanukkah, where grandchildren visit their grandparents, receive a gift, and sign a book to record their progression in age and signature. This tradition fosters a sense of community, tradition, and fellowship. The speaker also reflects on the importance of repetition and the difficulty of breaking free from habits or routines, using the example of the mishna "if not now, when?" to emphasize the need to take action in the present.
In the "Learning Pirkei Avot (Ethics of the Fathers) - #34" YouTube video, the speaker shares personal stories and insights on decision-making, self-care, and the importance of traditions. They reflect on the importance of planning ahead, considering consequences, and teaching these skills to children. The speaker also discusses the relevance of traditions in a rapidly changing world, the value of boredom, and the role of rabbis in interpreting religious texts in the context of technology. They emphasize the significance of respecting history, community, and the intangible elements of learning from rabbis, while acknowledging the challenges of having open discussions about unorthodox topics with Orthodox rabbis.
02:00:00 In this section of the YouTube video "Learning Pirkei Avot (Ethics of the Fathers) - #34," the speaker shares his personal struggle with making decisions and the importance of forethought and planning. He emphasizes the need to consider one's surroundings and the potential consequences of actions before taking them. Using examples from his own life and experiences with his children, he encourages the development of the habit of planning ahead and having contingencies in place. The speaker emphasizes the importance of teaching these skills to children, allowing them to make decisions confidently and effectively in their adult lives. He also mentions the influence of Jewish teachings on these principles.
02:05:00 In this section of the "Learning Pirkei Avot (Ethics of the Fathers) - #34" YouTube video, the speaker reflects on the challenges and decisions they have encountered in their career and personal life. They express regret over not finishing a teaching degree due to the significant difference in time required now compared to when they were younger. The speaker also shares their experiences working in retail despite having a BA and almost completing a teaching degree. They encourage young people to be brave and seize opportunities, recognizing the potential for growth and change throughout life. The speaker's recent achievement was recognizing the importance of prioritizing their health and taking a day off when needed, despite canceling appointments and letting others know. They emphasize the importance of taking care of one's body and acknowledging the impact of decisions on oneself and others.
02:10:00 In this section of the "Learning Pirkei Avot (Ethics of the Fathers) - #34" YouTube video, the speaker discusses the importance of taking care of oneself while also considering the needs of others. Using personal experiences, he explains how neglecting one's own well-being can lead to negative consequences. He also emphasizes the significance of tradition and how it can provide structure and hierarchy in life. The speaker expresses concerns about the impact of technology on the concept of patience and the importance of adapting to new circumstances while maintaining essential values.
02:15:00 In this section of the "Learning Pirkei Avot (Ethics of the Fathers) - #34" YouTube video, the speaker reflects on the value of boredom and the importance of learning to occupy oneself during repetitive tasks. He shares anecdotes about the benefits of boredom from an artistic perspective and his own experiences. The speaker also discusses the challenges of instilling this habit in children in today's world, where distractions like phones and entertainment are readily available. He shares his personal approach as a strict father, limiting screen time and enforcing responsibilities to help his children learn to deal with boredom and develop self-discipline.
02:20:00 In this section of the YouTube video titled "Learning Pirkei Avot (Ethics of the Fathers) - #34," the speaker discusses the relevance of traditions, such as writing the Torah by hand, in a rapidly changing world. A viewer named Jason asks if this concept can be related to the differences between handwriting and typing. The speaker explains that while technology may advance, traditions like writing the Torah by hand continue to be important and are built into the tradition. The speaker also ponders the implications of technological advancements on human relationships, education, and society, and questions whether the Torah, which is written for humans, would still be relevant if humans were fundamentally different. The conversation then shifts to a discussion about the differences between handwriting and typing in the context of writing communities and art.
02:25:00 In this section of the "Learning Pirkei Avot (Ethics of the Fathers) - #34" YouTube video, the speaker discusses the relevance of traditional Jewish law (Halaka) in a modern world where technology is increasingly prevalent. He compares handwritten art and typed text, acknowledging the importance of preserving traditional methods but emphasizing that the essence of Halaka itself is eternal. The speaker uses the example of God's constant presence and consistency throughout history to illustrate this point. He also mentions various imaginative interpretations of Jewish texts throughout history, such as the Tower of Babel as a launching pad for a spaceship. The speaker encourages rabbis to embrace new technologies and continue thinking creatively while maintaining the relevance of traditional Jewish law. Despite the advancements in AI and technology, the speaker believes that the role of rabbis remains crucial for providing deeper context and understanding that cannot be replicated by a machine.
02:30:00 In this section of the YouTube video titled "Learning Pirkei Avot (Ethics of the Fathers) - #34," the speaker reflects on the complexity of understanding and interpreting religious texts, using the example of artificial intelligence (AI) and its ability to learn from various rabbis throughout history. He emphasizes the importance of not just the correct answer but also the intangible elements of respect, history, and community that come with learning from these rabbis. The speaker acknowledges the challenges of mapping the future with the exponential changes technology brings and the need for rabbis who can engage with the new world. He concludes by acknowledging the current outlier status of those who explore these topics and the need for a critical mass to take it seriously.
02:35:00 In this section of the "Learning Pirkei Avot (Ethics of the Fathers) - #34" YouTube video, the speaker discusses the challenges and controversies of having open discussions about unorthodox topics with Orthodox rabbis. He explains that such conversations need to be kept private to avoid causing drama and tension, as some rabbis teach in different schools and their views may not align with their current discussions. The speaker shares his personal experience of being a questioner in a former community and the resulting drama, and expresses the importance of having such conversations despite the potential for controversy.