Summary of 12_Cap. 8: Hábito 4: Pensar ganar-ganar_Los 7 hábitos de los adolescentes alt efectivos_Sean Covey

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The video discusses the seventh habit of successful people--thinking about winning and losing. The video discusses how this habit can help people in their personal lives, in their relationships, and in their careers. The video provides examples of how this habit can be beneficial in different areas of life.

• 00:00:00 Hábito 4 in Sean Covey's "Hábitos de los Adolescentes Altamente Efectivos" is to think about ways to win, and to focus on achieving goals, rather than on avoiding losing. This habit is important for adolescents, who are constantly competing with each other. If a student is always focused on winning, they will be less likely to feel down about themselves and their accomplishments, and will be better able to build relationships with others. In Sean Covey's "Hábitos de los Adolescentes Altamente Efectivos," Habit 4 is to think about ways to win, and to focus on achieving goals, rather than on avoiding losing. This habit is important for adolescents, who are constantly competing with each other. If a student is always focused on winning, they will be less likely to feel down about themselves and their accomplishments, and will be better able to build relationships with others. This habit, which is Habit 4 in Sean Covey's "Hábitos de los Adolescentes Altamente Efectivos," is important for adolescents because it allows them to focus on their goals and to set themselves up for success. If a student is able
• 00:05:00 In this video, Sean Covey discusses the 7 habits of successful adolescents. He states that one of the habits is "winning and losing." He goes on to say that this attitude is harmful, and that if you want to be successful, you should focus on winning and losing modestly and competently. He also mentions that one should not be proud of having things, but rather be happy for having more than the next person. Finally, he shares a story of how one of his sons became the favorite of his mother, and how he worked hard to achieve good grades so that he would not have to compete with his brother.
• 00:10:00 The video discusses 7 habits of successful adolescents, which are as follows: 1. Persistently insisting with yourself even when you don't feel like it. 2. Always refusing to let others control what you do. 3. Feeling jealous or envious when someone else succeeds. 4. Generally winning and losing, but always risking falling off the boat. 5. Being weak and easy to push around. 6. Being the good person who caves to everyone's demands. 7. Keeping your expectations low and compromising your own values. At some point, these habits become too much for one person to handle, and the young person falls into the trap of losing, winning, and losing again. This is called "perder ganar," or "losing to win." If the issue is not important to you, as when your mother and sister cannot agree on the side of the closet, it is easier for you to do as you're told. However, this has taken its toll on the young person, who eventually breaks down and tells their mother about the abuse. The video goes on to say that if you are in a abusive relationship, it is a cycle of abuse that never ends, and you will always need to
• 00:15:00 The video discusses how to win, in general. It discusses how to think about winning, and the seven habits of successful adolescents. Sean Covey shares how he learned this, through personal experience. He talks about how his grandmother used this same philosophy when she was his coach. The video concludes with a message about how to deal with difficult relationships.
• 00:20:00 The video discusses the habits of successful adolescents, which include being focused on winning, being appreciative of others' success, and being self-reliant. One example of a successful habit is being focused on winning, which leads to a feeling of happiness and success. The video then discusses the second habit, being self-reliant, and how it helps achieve success. The video concludes with advice on how to achieve these habits.
• 00:25:00 The video Luke Skywalker talks about the difference between "Hábito 1: La importancia de ser feliz" and "Hábito 2: La importancia de ser competente", and how "Hábito 4: Pensar ganar-ganar" is the key to being happy and successful in life.
• 00:30:00 The video discusses how teenagers' self-esteem is often based on how they compare themselves to others. It goes on to talk about how Sean Covey recommends that people focus on their own strengths, and not on comparing themselves to others. There are examples of how people become trapped in comparisons, and how one's diet and clothing choices can become an unhealthy way to cope with this. The video concludes with a talk from Sean Covey about how to break free from comparisons.
• 00:35:00 Sean Covey's "Hábito 4: Pensar ganar-ganar" is a video about how to think about winning in your life. He shares how he overcame a negative emotional state by changing his habits, and the lesson is that you should always try to be do what's best for you and your friends, even if it doesn't always feel like it's popular. He recommends not making deals with others in order to win, and to instead just enjoy the process of winning and learning from losses. This video is a great reminder for young adults to think about what's best for them when it comes to their successes and failures.
• 00:40:00 This video explains the "habit of thinking win/win" and its benefits, which include a good feeling and a sense of security. Jacques Herrán, a blind man who became a resistance leader in Nazi-occupied France at age 16, provides an example of how this habit can be beneficial.
• 00:45:00 The video discusses the seventh habit of successful people--thinking about winning and losing. The video discusses how this habit can help people in their personal lives, in their relationships, and in their careers.