Summary of CÓMO SE FORMÓ NUESTRO TEMPERAMENTO

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This video discusses the different types of temperaments and how they are formed. It explains that the coléricos (angry) are the most important because they are the ones who take risks and are natural leaders. They are also cold, emotional, and independent, and they don't have much empathy. The introverted children are the opposite. They are hypersensitive and talented, but they are also very dependent on their parents. These children develop a temperament between the adhesive (melancholic) and the hípico (happy). The coléricos are the ones who are most likely to be successful in life.

• 00:00:00 This video discusses the theory of four temperaments: sanguine (blood-based), bilious (yellow bile), melancholic (mourning), and phlegmatic (calm). The four temperaments are based on Aristotle's theory of humors, and are often used to classify people's personalities. The video also discusses the Enneagram, a personality assessment tool that uses 9 positions.
• 00:05:00 This video talks about four different temperaments: the natural cheerful child, the cynical child, the playful child, and the irate child. Each child has a particular temperament that is based on their energy level and how extroverted or introverted they are. The video goes on to say that children with an extroverted temperament are more likely to take initiative and be expressive, while those with a more introverted temperament are more likely to be passive and reactive.
• 00:10:00 The video discusses how extroverted children with high energy levels can be prone to developing behavioral problems when their parents are too authoritarian or give them too much punishment. However, those children who develop a sense of humor and are able to laugh at themselves or others are more likely to survive and adapt to their environment.
• 00:15:00 The video discusses the different types of temperaments and how they are formed. It explains that the coléricos (angry) are the most important because they are the ones who take risks and are natural leaders. They are also cold, emotional, and independent, and they don't have much empathy. They are self-sufficient and impetuous, and they can be rash. They are also resentful because they don't have much empathy and are irritable because things have to be done their way. This is also natural egocentrism, and they can be cruel and harmful. The introverted children are the opposite. They are hypersensitive and talented, but they are also very dependent on their parents. These children develop a temperament between the adhesive (melancholic) and the hípico (happy). The happy children are the ones who adapt well and adopt the colérico personality. The coléricos are the ones who are most likely to be successful in life.
• 00:20:00 The video discusses the various emotions that children can experience, and how those emotions can be shaped by the type of parenting that a child receives. It explains that there are three main emotions that children can have - coléric, melancholic, and placid - and that each one is a result of a child's relationship with their father. It goes on to say that some children are born with a dominant temperament, and that these emotions will be expressed in a more pronounced way depending on the other personality traits of the individual. Finally, the video provides examples of people who have each type of emotion, and advises parents that it is important to understand and accept their child's temperament in order to create a healthy and constructive relationship.
• 00:25:00 This video discusses how people's temperaments are formed, specifically focusing on how our temperaments are influenced by our internalized parental models. For example, a melancholic person may be perfectionistic because they have a father who is also melancholic, and has a part of himself that is the same as that part of him that seeks defects. This leads to continual dissatisfaction and never being able to be satisfied, no matter how good they get. This is also why a person with a melancholic temperament will constantly fight with their external (non-melancholic) parents, but not with their internal (melancholic) parents. Estrategias adaptativas son estrategias que un niño utiliza para sobrevivir en un mundo en el que no tiene poder, ya que depende de los padres el asunto. Por ejemplo, un niño que tiene un temperamento colérico puede utilizar diversas estrategias adaptativas, entre ellas la de reprimirse.
• 00:30:00 This video discusses different temperaments, and how they can influence our behavior and relationships. It discusses how our Temperament can be formed from our parents' toxicity or allowedness, and how we may react to them and externalize these conflicts in our personal relationships. The video also discusses the impact of our Temperament on our social life, and how we can overcome these conflicts by understanding and accepting them. Finally, the video discusses how to manage our Temperament in order to maximize its positive effects.