Summary of "DO THIS To Become Emotionally Stable!" | Sadhguru & Lewis Howes

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Sadhguru discusses how to become emotionally stable in order to live a healthier life. He explains that thoughts and emotions are what cause us pain, and that if we can learn to control them, we can live a fuller and more exciting life. He offers three tips for doing so: focus on becoming conscious of how you think, act, and feel; rehearse or practice what you want to change until it becomes second nature; and create a new personal reality by paying attention to what you're doing.

00:00:00 Sadhguru talks about the difference between living accidentally and living on purpose, and how living on purpose requires mindfulness. He goes on to say that if any part of you is jumping without purpose, it is an ailment.
00:05:00 Sadhguru explains that our thoughts and emotions are what cause us pain, and that if we can learn to control them, we can live a fuller and more exciting life. He goes on to say that if we are in constantly comfortable situations, this means that we are not growing. He tells a story about a man who loses his fear of suffering, and is able to fully explore his life. Once we are free from suffering, we can live in peace and harmony.
00:10:00 Sadhguru says that anger is a valuable emotion because most people are too lethargic in their responses once they get angry. He suggests that people learn to wake up when things are calmer, so that they can act with love and get the change in results they want.
00:15:00 Sadhguru and Lewis Howes discuss the idea that responsibility is up there, where it is, and how it relates to the idea of Solace. They argue that people who are psychologically distressed should not have such problems, and that the first step to healing these memories is for people to talk about them.
00:20:00 Sadhguru and Lewis Howes discuss how people can release their shame in a healthy manner, and how to avoid having disputes become arguments. They discuss how couples often have disputes about past issues, and how to have the fight about the issue at hand.
00:25:00 Sadhguru provides advice on how to overcome traumatic memories, including the need to develop a theory of malevolence and understanding that the person who abused you may no longer be a threat.
00:30:00 Sadhguru discusses how when something elicits shame, it can prevent someone from processing memories from the past that still bother them. He goes on to say that processing such memories can be difficult, but is possible if one is willing to invest time and energy into it. Sadhguru then shares his findings from studying how different people have succeeded in overcoming life-threatening illnesses through mind-body practices. He concludes by sharing his advice on how to achieve similar results in one's own life.
00:35:00 Sadhguru and Lewis Howes discuss the importance of being emotionally stable in order to live a healthy life. The pair discuss how the body and brain are able to return to equilibrium following stress, and how people can become addicted to the rush of energy that stress provides. They go on to explain that the repetition of thoughts and emotions can create a mental state that matches the past experience of the person, which can lead to health problems.
00:40:00 Sadhguru and Lewis Howes discuss the importance of becoming emotionally stable, and offer three tips for doing so. First, focus on becoming conscious of how you think, act, and feel. Second, rehearse or practice what you want to change until it becomes second nature. Third, create a new personal reality by paying attention to what you're doing.
00:45:00 The video discusses how people can become emotionally stable by doing things like rehearsing positive memories and turning down genes for disease. The speaker also shares that he has a memory impairment, and that it may be due to a lack of memories from before the age of 18.
00:50:00 Sadhguru discusses how lack-based thinking can lead to a lack of emotional stability in the home. He recommends practicing mindfulness to become more aware of our patterns and triggers. Finally, he talks about the importance of reflection on our past in order to develop emotional stability.
00:55:00 Sadhguru discusses the importance of separating oneself from others in order to develop an independent and self-reliant lifestyle. He discusses the challenges that adults may face in this process, such as guilt and pressure to provide for one's family, versus the pressures of independence and self-reliance.

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Sadhguru and Lewis Howes discuss the importance of emotions and how to deal with them in a healthy way. They explain that emotions are something we create ourselves, and that by understanding this, we can begin to break free from them. They offer advice on how to deal with emotions, including the importance of praising oneself and living in the moment.

01:00:00 Sadhguru talks about the importance of boundaries in relationships, and how difficult it can be to set them when you are close to your family. He encourages people to reflect on their relationship with their family, and to decide what is best for them. If it is impossible or uncomfortable to maintain a healthy relationship with your family, he recommends that you distance yourself.
01:05:00 Sadhguru explains that due to the overwhelming emotional stress of his family life, he developed a habit of dissociating to cope. After years of unsuccessful talk therapy, he realized that the problem was not just with his therapist, but with his entire system. He now works holistically, incorporating nutritional, lifestyle, and body-based treatments into his therapy.
01:10:00 The video discusses how the dysregulation of a person's nervous system can limit treatment. It also discusses how thoughts are spontaneous, and how changing one's physiology can also change one's thoughts. The video offers advice on how to address this issue, and provides a personal example of how it works.
01:15:00 Sadhguru encourages people to deliberately cultivate positive thoughts in order to prevent negative thoughts from constantly dominating. He discusses the role of dopamine in this process, and how people can learn to control it. This can help them maintain a positive outlook even in difficult situations, and improve their ability to endure effort.
01:20:00 Sadhguru and Lewis Howes discuss the role of dopamine in motivation and drive. They note that dopamine is not just about reward, and that it is one of the strongest triggers of neuroplasticity.
01:25:00 Sadhguru and Lewis Howes discuss the importance of expressing emotions and how doing so can help to resolve conflicts. They also discuss the importance of adrenaline and dopamine and how they can be positive or negative.
01:30:00 In this video, Sadhguru and Lewis Howes talk about how emotions can be difficult to deal with, especially when we're not used to them. They discuss the idea that emotions are something that we create ourselves, and that by understanding this, we can begin to break free from them. Finally, they offer advice on how to deal with emotions in a healthy way.
01:35:00 This video discusses the importance of praising oneself, and how it can help to increase one's self-esteem. It also discusses the dangers of criticizing oneself, and how it can lead to self-doubt and depression. The speaker suggests that people learn to praise themselves every day, even if it feels strange at first. This can help to make anything familiar and make it easier to overcome obstacles.
01:40:00 Sadhguru explains that, in order to be emotionally stable, one must live in the moment and not worry about the past or future. He also discusses the fear of rejection and how to overcome it.