Summary of This may be the reason you're still single

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The author discusses the idea that the "soulmate myth" is nothing more than a comfort mechanism, and that those with a growth mindset are more likely to have lasting relationships. She goes on to say that any reason for being single is valid, and that lasting love requires conscious decision-making and action.

• 00:00:00 The author argues that the "soulmate myth" - the idea that there is someone out there who is perfect for us and will make everything make sense - is nothing more than a comfort mechanism that helps us make sense of why things haven't worked out with anyone yet or why we haven't fallen in love. Those with a growth mindset focus on cultivating existing relationships and are more likely to have longer, more fulfilling relationships.
• 00:05:00 The author discusses the idea that there are multiple reasons why people may still be single, and that any reason is a valid one. She goes on to say that lasting love requires conscious decision-making and action, and that this is something that can be achieved through acts of compassion, appreciation, and reliability.