Summary of The Difference Between Doms/Subs and Tops/Bottoms

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This YouTube video discusses the difference between dominant and submissive roles, as well as top and bottom roles, in the context of BDSM relationships. The speaker describes how these roles can be expressed and offers advice on how to mind oneself and one's partner in order to create a healthy and safe relationship.

  • 00:00:00 The difference between doms/subs and tops/bottoms is that tops/bottoms are in control and doms/subs are not. Tops/bottoms may forget their handles, but they know who they are. The buttons on the shirts worn by the speaker and Jaime are not the first shirts ever seen, but they are the first shirts to receive monetization. This affects how much money the speaker and Jaime can make from their videos.
  • 00:05:00 The main difference between dominants and submissives is that dominants are in charge, while submissives are under the authority of a dominant. There is also a difference in how people identify themselves: dominants typically identify as dominants, while submissives typically identify as submissives. Finally, there is a difference in behavior between dominants and submissives. Dominants typically exhibit more dominant behavior, while submissives typically exhibit more submissive behavior.
  • 00:10:00 This video discusses the difference between dominants and submissives, and offers advice on how to deal with questions about this difference. The presenter notes that there are no hard and fast definitions to anything in kink, and that different people will have different definitions for these labels. She discusses her own personal definition of dominants and submissives, which includes the role a person plays in an activity, as well as when they are receiving or performing the activity. She notes that this is not something that always came to her earlier in her kink journey, but that it is now how she sees herself.
  • 00:15:00 The difference between Doms/Subs and Tops/Bottoms is that while tops/bottoms typically denote a power exchange, Doms/Subs enjoy being in control and can switch roles at any time. This can be a difficult concept for outsiders to understand, as they have no vested interest in the kinky activities involved.
  • 00:20:00 This video discusses the difference between tops and bottoms, and how both roles involve consent and communication in order to create a healthy and safe BDSM relationship. For some people, this involves negotiating a level of consent before any activity takes place. For others, this is an understanding that exists between two people regardless of the activity being performed.
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  • 00:30:00 The video discusses the difference between Doms/Subs and Tops/Bottoms, discussing that a Dom/Sub relationship is one in which the Dom/Sub is serving the dominant and that a Top/Bottoms relationship is one in which the Top is in control. The video discusses the theory that when a dominant requests an activity from their submissive, they're actually asking for service. The video also notes that this is only possible if the submissive agrees and is willing to do whatever the dominant asks of them.
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  • 00:45:00 The video discusses the different dynamics between tops and bottoms, with the main difference being that a top is in control mentally and emotionally, while a bottom is in control physically. The author encourages people to mind themselves and their partners appropriately, instead of making assumptions based on one's physical appearance or behavior in a BDSM scene.
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  • 00:55:00 The video discusses the difference between dominant/submissive roles and top/bottom roles, and provides examples of how these roles might be expressed. The speaker describes her experiences at a marching band competition, where she experienced her childhood awkwardness and clumsiness.

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The video discusses the difference between Doms/Subs and Tops/Bottoms, and how a person can be both a sub and a top at different times. The video offers advice on how to deal with difficult clients and how to take on different roles in a relationship.

  • 01:00:00 The video discusses the difference between doms/subs and tops/bottoms, and how a person can be both a sub and a top at different times. The narrator recalls being awkward and clumsy as a teenager and developing a self-protective instinct to either laugh it off or act like everything was fine. Later in life, she falls while walking on concrete blocks and ends up with a sore spot on her butt. She reflects on how her family used to call her "grace" and how it's funny that she has to laugh at herself now.
  • 01:05:00 The speaker discusses the different roles that people may take on in a relationship, specifically in regards to dominance and submission. They note that it is likely because their marching band training involved a flat field that they were able to be successful in this role. However, when someone tries to take on a dominant role in a relationship, the speaker notes that it can be difficult and even harmful. They describe a few examples of when this has been true in their own life, including when their youngest child was sick and they were not able to get dinner out, and when their husband was out of town for work. The speaker also notes that these events have led to confusion and a lack of clarity in their relationships.
  • 01:10:00 The video discusses the difference between Doms/Subs and Tops/Bottoms, and offers advice on how to deal with difficult clients. The speaker says that, even if a bad spanking is worse than no spanking, it's still better than not getting spanked at all.

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