Summary of If You're SINGLE & Can't Find DEEP LOVE In A Relationship - WATCH THIS | Jay Shetty

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In a video titled "If You're SINGLE & Can't Find DEEP LOVE In A Relationship - WATCH THIS", the speaker discusses the five types of attraction in a relationship - physical, financial, mental, emotional, and spiritual. While physical, financial, and mental attraction are based on chemistry, emotional and spiritual attraction are based on compatibility, which is essential for a long-lasting relationship. Baggage from past relationships can hinder intimacy, and it is crucial to let emotional and spiritual attraction guide relationships. The speaker also emphasizes the balance between being a compassionate giver and protecting oneself by being honest and declining to do things for people when you feel overly compassionate, toxic, or bitter.

• 00:00:00 In this section, the speaker talks about the five types of attraction: physical, financial, mental, emotional, and spiritual. While physical, financial, and mental attraction are more like chemistry, emotional and spiritual attraction are more like compatibility. People tend to start relationships based on chemistry, but it cannot be the end point; compatibility is crucial for a long-lasting relationship. Moreover, people carry baggage from previous relationships that can influence how they approach a new person, hindering their ability to have an intimate connection. It is essential to let the last two types of attraction (emotional and spiritual) be the guiding force in a relationship.
• 00:05:00 In this section, the conversation focuses on the balance between being a compassionate giver and protecting oneself. Jay explains that compassion is not about spending all day with one person who needs your attention and affection, as that can enable people-pleasing and expecting something in return. Instead, compassion requires honest self-protection. He also advises protecting yourself by being honest with yourself and decline to do things for people when you feel overly compassionate, toxic, or bitter towards them. By doing so, you become more conscious of your intention and are thus compassionate for the right reasons.